[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Amy Jade

Irrelevant.

Just because you know somebody doesn't mean they can put their hands on you at their own choosing. If the man who serves you in tesco regularly saw you hug your friend is it ok for him to then throw his arms around you?

It was just playfighting, something she does all the time herself. Hardly hugging her?

[Amy Jade]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

He barely made contact and she was clutching the wrong side. Pathetic attempt at getting rid of the competition.

Now you keep moving the goalposts. I believe he did not make contact with her and she is in the wrong but the OP you wrote seems to indicate that because she playfights with a person she is somehow obliged to do the same with another person.

That sentiment I disagree with.

[Vanessa]

When even DS is backing you, that says everything. Roxanne has sealed her own fate. She won't win now.

[Alf]

Originally Posted by kingston

How do you know it was a “massive overreaction”? You aren’t Roxanne so you have no idea how it made her feel and you don’t have the right to dictate someone else’s personal boundaries...

Because I said so, and what I say, go's.

I'll dictate peoples personal boundries whenever I like, what you gonna do to stop me, type at me?

[Elliot]

Originally Posted by kingston

How do you know it was a “massive overreaction”? You aren’t Roxanne so you have no idea how it made her feel and you don’t have the right to dictate someone else’s personal boundaries...

You also aren’t Ryan so you don’t know how it feels to be antagonised, given and formal warning and have someone call for your ejection for playfighting that has consisted in the house for its entire duration thru multiple people. And you’re doing the same thing roxy is doing by comparing touching of genitals/ saying racial slurs to playfighting, conflating him with actual rulebresking criminal acts/people
And yes I agree with you earlier they handled it fine production wise by showing the situation. It has let people judge the situation by themselves, and you have to look no further than the getroxyout hashtag trending for the consensus

[Amy Jade]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

It was just playfighting, something she does all the time herself. Hardly hugging her?

It was just hugging. You hugged your friend so the bloke from tesco you speak to a few times a week can hug you whenever he wants.

[kingston]

Originally Posted by rusticgal

Because it's hypocritical..

How is setting personal boundaries hypocritical? By your mentality it’s hypocritical for someone to say they were raped because they consented to sexual intercourse with one person and not another...

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Amy Jade

Now you keep moving the goalposts. I believe he did not make contact with her and she is in the wrong but the OP you wrote seems to indicate that because she playfights with a person she is somehow obliged to do the same with another person.

That sentiment I disagree with.

Maybe not, but he doesn't deserve to get thrown out over it.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Amy Jade

It was just hugging. You hugged your friend so the bloke from tesco you speak to a few times a week can hug you whenever he wants.

He didn't hug her. It was playfighting.

[kingston]

Originally Posted by Elliot

You also aren’t Ryan so you don’t know how it feels to be antagonised, given and formal warning and have someone call for your ejection for playfighting that has consisted in the house for its entire duration thru multiple people. And you’re doing the same thing roxy is doing by comparing touching of genitals/ saying racial slurs to playfighting, conflating him with actual rulebresking criminal acts/people
And yes I agree with you earlier they handled it fine production wise by showing the situation. It has let people judge the situation by themselves, and you have to look no further than the getroxyout hashtag trending for the consensus

I’m not speaking for Ryan nor am I speaking for Roxanne... I’m comparing those two things because there really is no difference between what is and isn’t acceptable behaviour... Personal boundaries are boundaries and it doesn’t matter how they are violated...

[Amy Jade]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

Maybe not, but he doesn't deserve to get thrown out over it.

I don't think he does either. I am actually on Ryan's side but again, you say she lets Ben playfight her so should allow Ryan...why?

If she has a relationship with Ben where she is comfortable to playfight with him that doesn't mean she has the same relationship with Ryan. We have different boundaries with different people.

[Amy Jade]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

He didn't hug her. It was playfighting.

Yeah the point is going straight over your head Vanessa.

[kingston]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

He didn't hug her. It was playfighting.

That doesn’t matter... It’s the same thing regardless of what the act is... A violation of personal boundaries is still a violation...

[kingston]

Originally Posted by Amy Jade

Yeah the point is going straight over your head Vanessa.

Well said...

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by kingston

That doesn’t matter... It’s the same thing regardless of what the act is... A violation of personal boundaries is still a violation...

It was playfighting, fgs. People have done far worse on the show. Before it went all pc.

[Pro Sniper]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

When even DS is backing you, that says everything. Roxanne has sealed her own fate. She won't win now.

Was she close to the win minus this latest bullshyte of hers? Her odds have been steadily rising as the days pass. Even Nick Leeson had a better chance than her prior to her latest nonsense.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Amy Jade

Yeah the point is going straight over your head Vanessa.

I don't think it's the same thing. A hug is different from a playfight.

[kingston]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

Maybe not, but he doesn't deserve to get thrown out over it.

You’re entitled to your opinion in this regard... Regardless Roxanne is still entitled to feel violated enough to not want to be around him... That said I agree that his behaviour doesn’t warrant a removal at this point...

[Alf]

Originally Posted by kingston

That doesn’t matter... It’s the same thing regardless of what the act is... A violation of personal boundaries is still a violation...

I've decided that you violated my personal boundries by replying negatively to my post. I can't sleep now.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Pro Sniper

Was she close to the win minus this latest bullshyte of hers? Her odds have been steadily rising as the days pass. Even Nick Leeson had a better chance than her prior to her latest nonsense.

That's good to hear. She needs to go.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by kingston

You’re entitled to your opinion in this regard... Regardless Roxanne is still entitled to feel violated enough to not want to be around him... That said I agree that his behaviour doesn’t warrant a removal at this point...

I think she's overreacting big time. That's all.

[Alf]

If I get banned, can I still play Top Answers?

[kingston]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

It was playfighting, fgs. People have done far worse on the show. Before it went all pc.

What’s happened in the past is irrellevent... Only Roxanne can define her own personal boundaries... Just because it was acceptable for someone else does not mean someone else will consider it in the same manner...

[Pink Panther]

Originally Posted by Alf

Because I said so, and what I say, go's.

I'll dictate peoples personal boundries whenever I like, what you gonna do to stop me, type at me?

I love u, Mr Magoo!

[Pink Panther]

Originally Posted by kingston

How is setting personal boundaries hypocritical? By your mentality it’s hypocritical for someone to say they were raped because they consented to sexual intercourse with one person and not another...

He didn't even touch her. Calm the **** down.