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Old 31-08-2018, 12:05 AM #1
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It was just playfighting, something she does all the time herself. Hardly hugging her?
It was just hugging. You hugged your friend so the bloke from tesco you speak to a few times a week can hug you whenever he wants.
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It was just hugging. You hugged your friend so the bloke from tesco you speak to a few times a week can hug you whenever he wants.
He didn't hug her. It was playfighting.
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He didn't hug her. It was playfighting.
Yeah the point is going straight over your head Vanessa.
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Yeah the point is going straight over your head Vanessa.
Well said...
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Yeah the point is going straight over your head Vanessa.
I don't think it's the same thing. A hug is different from a playfight.
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I don't think it's the same thing. A hug is different from a playfight.
Both result in personal contact but yet again the difference between the two is actually irrelevant they were just examples but you keep missing the point.

Right. Say I was in the house with two guys, one I was pretty close with and struck up a friendship with and our frienship was such that we would play fight, then a guy I barely knew tried to play the same with me - I would not feel comfortable. I barely know him and our relationship is not developed enough for me to be comfortable to play around and have his hands on me.

Are you suggesting I have no right to say I was uncomfortable with him being in my personal space because I allow another person to? Because that is basically what you are saying.
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Both result in personal contact but yet again the difference between the two is actually irrelevant they were just examples but you keep missing the point.

Right. Say I was in the house with two guys, one I was pretty close with and struck up a friendship with and our frienship was such that we would play fight, then a guy I barely knew tried to play the same with me - I would not feel comfortable. I barely know him and our relationship is not developed enough for me to be comfortable to play around and have his hands on me.

Are you suggesting I have no right to say I was uncomfortable with him being in my personal space because I allow another person to? Because that is basically what you are saying.
I think she overreacted.
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I think she overreacted.
I give up. Clearly you just don't get it.

I agree she overreacted but the fact remains just because you are comfortable with one person engaging with you in a certain way doesn't mean you HAVE to be comfortable with another person engaging with you in the same way. Not even sure how you keep missing the point actually.
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He didn't hug her. It was playfighting.
That doesn’t matter... It’s the same thing regardless of what the act is... A violation of personal boundaries is still a violation...
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That doesn’t matter... It’s the same thing regardless of what the act is... A violation of personal boundaries is still a violation...
It was playfighting, fgs. People have done far worse on the show. Before it went all pc.
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It was playfighting, fgs. People have done far worse on the show. Before it went all pc.
What’s happened in the past is irrellevent... Only Roxanne can define her own personal boundaries... Just because it was acceptable for someone else does not mean someone else will consider it in the same manner...
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What’s happened in the past is irrellevent... Only Roxanne can define her own personal boundaries... Just because it was acceptable for someone else does not mean someone else will consider it in the same manner...
Same goes for Ryan. And Roxanne trying to make him look like an abuser is also wrong.
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That doesn’t matter... It’s the same thing regardless of what the act is... A violation of personal boundaries is still a violation...
I've decided that you violated my personal boundries by replying negatively to my post. I can't sleep now.
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