[Twosugars]

Porn is fine, we do that with my bf. Watch separately or together
Pics/vids send from somebody you know only online is borderline. Depends where it leads. If it leads to sex chat then it is cheating. If it's just for a laugh, comparing etc, then it's fine, no different to a locker room.

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

No to all of the above, however, I personally find porn bleak as **** and have various moral issues with it. Really just a horrible, exploitative industry full of addicts and desperation and frankly if I wanted to see some poor smack addict getting slammed I could just set up CCTV in the alleyway behind the shop. But I really don't.

This view of porn is a bit outdated. Big studios are losing to amateur porn where real people do it for fun and extra income. It's better, not as robotic and chances of exploitation are lower.