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This isn't even a modern-partisan issue either to be honest, after young women the next two most affected groups by these "empowering sites" are trans women and gay men (or rather not men, boys in their late teens, because that's what the old fat sweaty men with their cocks out will pay to see).

Most people end up deeply regretting it. You don't often hear from those people though. You hear from the ones who made a fortune or maybe made a bit of independent money that got them out of an even worse situation (bad childhood home or coercive control in a relationship maybe). An absolutely miniscule proportion but they're the ones who got some benefit from it, so of course they're the ones you hear about.