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View Poll Results: How guarded are you when it comes to respecting your confidantes’ personal info.?
I’m extremely guarded at the mouth so I’d never betray a confidence, ever 6 75.00%
I’m extremely guarded at the mouth so I’d never betray a confidence, ever
6 75.00%
Like 1 but I’d betray a confidence if that person then went on to hurt or betray me somehow 1 12.50%
Like 1 but I’d betray a confidence if that person then went on to hurt or betray me somehow
1 12.50%
I’d talk if there was a situational reason for it but only in a closed bubble 1 12.50%
I’d talk if there was a situational reason for it but only in a closed bubble
1 12.50%
I’m not instinctively very discreet or private but when told specifically to hush, fairs 0 0%
I’m not instinctively very discreet or private but when told specifically to hush, fairs
0 0%
I’m not going to lie, I find it hard to keep secrets but I’ll do it if I respect the person enough 0 0%
I’m not going to lie, I find it hard to keep secrets but I’ll do it if I respect the person enough
0 0%
Yeah, don’t tell me anything in confidence. I’m a gossip (even if Redway hates people like me) 0 0%
Yeah, don’t tell me anything in confidence. I’m a gossip (even if Redway hates people like me)
0 0%
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Originally Posted by Soldier Boy View Post
Bit of a dual answer here. If something is said in confidence then I will keep it that way - with the caveat of understanding that if you tell me something, you are telling both me and my wife that thing. We talk about literally everything. Essentially it's not just that I might tell her, I 100% definitely will tell her, and vice versa. However for both of us, it will go no further than that.

I think that should generally be assumed of most long term/married couples, though.
I understand why this happens but it does make me a bit cautious about what I'd tell my married friends

Had a situation before where something has happened you wouldn't want talked about, guy tells his wife 'in confidence', she tells her best friend 'in confidence', her friend tells her parents 'in confidence' and before you know it it's all over the place!
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