[lostalex]

Originally Posted by sarakss

I knew you were going to say something like this which is why I used the word 'can' - as in having the ability to do something. A man can produce sperm, a woman will never be able to.

This is not a question of fertility so the issue of procreation is moot; this is a question of biological identity - man versus woman.

If we're talking about deceit, I believe a woman stuffing her bra and a woman who's gone through a process to make herself appear to be someone she's biologically not are light years apart.

that's perfectly fine, that you have such a problem with it, but you must also realize not everyone is as bothered by it as you are. There are plenty of people perfectly happy to fall in love under these circumstances, and yur opinion means nothing to them.

You are free to fall in love with whomever you like, and i don't think Luke A is casting any judgement on YOUR choices, so maybe you should think twice before you start casting judgements on HIS or anyone elses relationships.

Who you love is yur business, and who he loves is his.

I'm not saying you can't have an opinion, but i do wonder why you seem so pationate about your judgements, is it because you are projecting your own values on other people? if so, you should keep your values to yourself imho.

Why can't you just be happy for him and his wife that they have found love under such extrodinary circumstances?