[Tozzie]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

Apples and oranges. He mentioned his father not feeling it was very friendly, all of the neighbours faces being foreign. The tone and description suggests it's not a positive thing.

He also mentioned the number of greencard marriages. That's not a positive thing.

If the only change is the skin colours are getting darker then the discussion is even more ridiculous than I first thought.

the things I mentioned may not be positive things but its fact. Green card marriages happen The fact my father feeling sadness how he feels his country has gone into decline in his last years of life is a negative thing, why would I feel positive about my 84 years old father feeling sad about how life as he knows it has changed. If the only change is the skin colours are getting darker, now I find that a ridiculous thing to say, it's to do with many things changing.