[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

No one is denying that, you can teach them how to behave without violence though.

A slap on the bum is hardly violence

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

A slap on the bum is hardly violence

umm what is it then?

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

umm what is it then?

Discipline, something sadly missing today

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

Discipline, something sadly missing today

Discipline by an act of violence......

I've never raised a hand to either of my kids and they're really good, non bratty kids, how ever did I manage that?

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Discipline by an act of violence......

I've never raised a hand to either of my kids and they're really good, non bratty kids, how ever did I manage that?

But all parents think they kids aren't brats, but the neighbours and people they come across in life may not agree

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

But all parents think they kids aren't brats, but the neighbours and people they come across in life may not agree

Right, so how do you know yours weren't brats either even though you hit them?

But just for an outside perspective, I've never once had a bad review from any of their teachers at parents evenings so that's a good indicator I think

[Tom4784]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

Discipline, something sadly missing today

Thank god, we don't have need for such a weak brand of parenting. A parent that raises their hand to their children have failed at parenting. Fear is not a healthy way of parenting children at all.

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by Dezzy

Thank god, we don't have need for such a weak brand of parenting. A parent that raises their hand to their children have failed at parenting. Fear is not a healthy way of parenting children at all.

How many children do you have ?

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

How many children do you have ?

i am going to say

Spoiler:

none

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

i am going to say

Spoiler:

none

Exactly, people who dont have children do not know how to raise them to be decent human being

[Tom4784]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

How many children do you have ?

Oh look, another blatant attempt at suppressing opinions.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Dezzy

Oh look, another blatant attempt at suppressing opinions.

Yeah because you need to have had kids to have an opinion on whether an adult should be allowed hit a small child

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Dezzy

Oh look, another blatant attempt at suppressing opinions.

or maybe a salient reminder that one may not have the best idea what one is talking about?

[Ashley.]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

How many children do you have ?

So Dezzy has no part in this debate because he doesn't have children? OK. So I suppose we should ban men from debates regarding women, and straight people from debates regarding LGBT issues. What a sad attempt at trying to belittle somebody's worth in a thread that is open for anybody to contribute to.

[Nicky91]

Originally Posted by Ashley.

So Dezzy has no part in this debate because he doesn't have children? OK. So I suppose we should ban men from debates regarding women, and straight people from debates regarding LGBT issues. What a sad attempt at trying to belittle somebody's worth in a thread that is open for anybody to contribute to.

well said Ashley

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by Ashley.

So Dezzy has no part in this debate because he doesn't have children? OK. So I suppose we should ban men from debates regarding women, and straight people from debates regarding LGBT issues. What a sad attempt at trying to belittle somebody's worth in a thread that is open for anybody to contribute to.

Ive been told many times I do not understand the "struggle" LGBT people have because Im not gay

[Denver]

Originally Posted by Dezzy

Thank god, we don't have need for such a weak brand of parenting. A parent that raises their hand to their children have failed at parenting. Fear is not a healthy way of parenting children at all.

Because the reason brand of parenting that has allowed kids to become addicting with stabbing other kids and joy riding and other stupid stiff is the best way

[Tom4784]

Originally Posted by Adam.

Because the reason brand of parenting that has allowed kids to become addicting with stabbing other kids and joy riding and other stupid stiff is the best way

You act like violence is a new thing born of not using physical abuse as a parenting tool. It's not. People were killed and harmed in the 'good ol' days' too. You are letting nostalgia colour the facts.

Violence is the tool of the lazy parent not willing to put in the effort of raising their kids right.

[Denver]

Originally Posted by Dezzy

You act like violence is a new thing born of not using physical abuse as a parenting tool. It's not. People were killed and harmed in the 'good ol' days' too. You are letting nostalgia colour the facts.

Violence is the tool of the lazy parent not willing to put in the effort of raising their kids right.

Since the social Service have told parents what to do and threatened to take the child of a parent for the smallest thing that is when the children of today became the worst

[Beso]

Originally Posted by Dezzy

You act like violence is a new thing born of not using physical abuse as a parenting tool. It's not. People were killed and harmed in the 'good ol' days' too. You are letting nostalgia colour the facts.

Violence is the tool of the lazy parent not willing to put in the effort of raising their kids right.

I think my dad was knackered half the time after a hard day at work...

4 kids running around doing the same sort of stuff every night...sometimes we would be fine but the next night he would just fly off his seat and leather us half way up the stairs as though the noise was to much for him.



Funny though, i could have made it to the bathroom to lock the door but i always froze halfway up the stairs and just took it.


I remember giving him one back when i was 18, that shook him...shook him into full blown rage mode...