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Originally Posted by Maru

Yeah none of it makes any sense. My husband can be jumpy, but not nearly anything like that. Like when in restaurants, etc, he has a bit more anxiety if we sit somewhere where he can't see the doors, doesn't like his back towards total strangers when sitting to eat... all his coworkers/friends outside of work are the same and it's an unspoken rule... we have people in the cities here they will come in and rob at gun-point and kill attendants, so that happens... but the reason for his seating arrangement, they are always trained to not leave their back exposed to inmates, suspects, etc... in fact, altercations have happened to newer recruits who didn't do that in a detention's setting so he's quick to correct newer people on it... in the police academy, they were required by their drill sgts to reverse-park into their parking spot so that the front is facing out for security but also respect (they would go to the parking lot and perform drills, etc) ... anyway, it's been said that it just feels wrong to not park as such after it's been ingrained so long... I won't let him park my car that way though ... but he's always been a reverse-parking kind of guy...

My god. Does he not have therapy or anything to help with the anxiety?

That must be so frustrating to be like that in public.