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Originally Posted by Toy Soldier
She's an extreme narcissist, she literally talks about herself all of the time. ALL of the time. If a conversation isn't about her, she MAKES it about her, or someone / something from her past... I've honestly never seen anything like it and I've known plenty of narcissists. She referred to her own vagina as being "the gateway to another dimension"!
Other people are seen as actors on her stage to further her own drama and narrative. One of the most telling things is... she doesn't know how to handle Lewis G when he's winding her up, so to get around that, she basically pretends that he doesn't exist. Like he's a blooper in the Anamelia show  .
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...she isn’t a narcissist at all TS..I’m sorry but she just isn’t ...that seems to be thrown into most series of BB of recent times...like we have to have a narcissist housemate..

...she has narcissistic qualities...every single one of us has narcisstic qualities ...and I do agree she has more than an ‘average’...but she’s far from an extreme that would go to make a narcissist though...she does discuss herself a lot and her own associations with things.......many people do that though...it’s not really a great trait always for a housemate but it’s something many people do both in and outside the house...she saw what she perceived as bullying behaviour and whether it was or not...that’s how she saw it and it showed empathy and consideration for another housemate...a veritable stranger to her..?..that’s not a narcissistic quality...she also listened to Cameron and accepted and respected his opinion, even though she may not have agreed with it...?...so she sees the viewpoint of others but hasn’t necessarily yet come to a place of agreement with them..?...again that would indicate she’s not a narcissist...she explains her associations as she did with Zoe when she’d been subjected to being talked about in her past, in her childhood....and how that’s given her an aversion...but she also accepted, that association didn’t apply with Zoe and that situation and she explained that to Zoe...that she realised she’d misinterpreted....?...so no, no narcissist for me but she’s someone who finds it difficult to be in a group situation and accept others, I would say...and someone who likes to feel that they’re always heard in terms of explaining these things and why things have made her feel a certain way...but then doesn’t always give the same consideration to others is the problem..and Lewis G is the one furthering his own drama by winding her up and taunting her...he obviously has no drama to provide himself or no personality so he has to adopt a Stephen Bear character ...and especially as he lost Ellis as a bit of a showmance talking point...he doesn’t exist to me either as a person until he actually reveals who he is and stops pretending to be someone else and a copy cat caricature type person....if he can’t be ‘real’ why should he deserve any attention...