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Originally Posted by Garfie

I agree with you totally that just because Tomasz is touchy feely people shouldn't let him do as he likes with them, and i wasn't suggesting for one moment they should.

However, I honestly do believe that if Akeem was that uncomfortable he would have stopped him or have told him to stop. In fact, his words suggested he wasn't awkward, as did him encouraging Tomasz to give him a lap dance the other night! I also think the same would apply to Akeem had the cameras been off. Akeem would be totally able to defend himself if it was necessary.

Your last sentence seems to imply that Tomasz would sexually assault someone, which seems to me a little inappropriate and unfair. It is noticeable that Tomasz has not behaved this way with everyone in the house, but has chosen the two strongest and most macho guys in the house, both of whom are straight - if he truly wanted to force unwanted attention on someone and was some sort of sexual predator, surely he would choose someone potentially more vulnerable, e.g. a smaller gay guy such as Cian (especially when he is drunk) or a young, inexperienced guy like Cameron.

His choices make no sense if his intentions are sinister, and I think perhaps he is trying to be amusing.

I disagree. Tomasz chose the macho men to basically dare them to do something about it. If they had reacted negatively he would have played the victim.

Everything about Tomasz pawing Akeem was wrong, and I'm sorry, if he invades peoples private space like that, he is a predator