[caprimint]

Jigs you literally said TO ME that you don't want to be in a relationship, you only stay w your bf because he accepts you

Stop taking the moral highground

[LukeB]

Originally Posted by JerseyWins

Also people don't typically cheat with the intention to hurt their partner / loved one. And there's often a looooot more behind the relationship. There are also MANY different mindsets when it comes to cheating in relationships. In some places / some people's minds it's a very normal thing to occur, especially in younger generations.

It's normally under usual circumstances a bad act I'd agree with that, but even then that's not equivalent to actually being a bad person because you did something bad. Everyone does something bad.

People have massive problems with Bear over mainly very little issues. Whatever I guess, that's fair But he's a funny/entertaining guy and sorry if he's not to you cause you're missing out

Maybe not but when they continue to carry on the cheating is soo bad because they actually know it's going to hurt their partner but continue to lie about it. Cheating can lead to all sorts of things because it ****s with their emotions . Bear is a serial cheater, not saying he is scum but that is awful and doesn't make you a good person at all. Also Bear's CBB cheat was done on TV which is super humiliating for that person, he knew she was watching.

[caprimint]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

Marsh: People...

Stacey: HOW do you KNOW their intentions?? Best not to make assumptions.

Jersey: People...

Stacey: Ugh just everything you said.

Not even 1% true as much as you would like it to be and get all the discord chat to laugh @ your post

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by caprimint

Not even 1% true as much as you would like it to be and get all the discord chat to laugh @ your post

Off on another tangent.

[Marsh.]

I love how discord chat is now somehow MY thing, considering it was Stacey, Daniel and Reece who set the thing up.

[caprimint]

What? I have no involvement over discord. I only use it for other things nothing to with tibb

[RileyH]

pipe down stacey drag race is on

[JerseyWins]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

Marsh: People...

Stacey: HOW do you KNOW their intentions?? Best not to make assumptions.

Jersey: People...

Stacey: Ugh just everything you said.

But the main point was not to assume what the person's intentions are or what the relationship is/was like.

I also disagree that people cheat with the INTENT to hurt their partner. It's going to hurt their partner, but the cheater usually has mixed emotions between two different people and does it selfishly for themselves, but not with the purpose to hurt their significant other. The purpose is not knowing what they truly want orrr just not caring, the latter being the worse reasoning but still a fairly common mindset you see in this generation's dating/love life. Not championing that mindset but that's just the truth these days Like I said, under normal circumstances it's a poor act to make in a relationship but no one really knows what's really going on in that relationship or just how bad it really was or the full reasoning. Either way, a bad act doesn't always/automatically make a bad person, that's where a lot of people here are jumping the gun.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by caprimint

What? I have no involvement over discord.

Not now you don't, no. So you drag discord mentions onto tibb to score points like a group of posters on here who don't even know what it is.

I hope the straws you're clutching are paper.

[Jigs]

Strangely bitter about being culled from discord considering it's no ones fault but yer own love

[JerseyWins]

Originally Posted by LukeB

Maybe not but when they continue to carry on the cheating is soo bad because they actually know it's going to hurt their partner but continue to lie about it. Cheating can lead to all sorts of things because it ****s with their emotions . Bear is a serial cheater, not saying he is scum but that is awful and doesn't make you a good person at all. Also Bear's CBB cheat was done on TV which is super humiliating for that person, he knew she was watching.

I think it's bad in Bear's case, especially this current situation that happened between him & his girl when the shoe was (allegedly/accused) on the other foot, but doesn't make the person vile even if it happened multiple times.

[caprimint]

Originally Posted by Jake.

Seriously though, how do you know that?

I’d agree that not every case is black and white. Some people might cheat because they’ve been treated poorly, others might cheat because they’re just a ****ty person. Not every person who cheats is a bad person, sure, but some people do just cheat on their partners for the simple fact that they’re unable to stay faithful and that’s not ok.

The way he knows that without first hand experience which is more than you guys could do

Originally Posted by Liam-

I don’t buy people not intending to hurt someone when they cheat, they know what’s going to happen, they can’t believe their other half will be happy about it

Okay so when you have done things that are wrong do you always think of/consider the other person? Doubt it lmao

Unless you haven't been in that situation
Which also doesnt matter either way

People are not expected to act perfectly every time they are in a situation that requires more than a sentence on a screen

[caprimint]

Originally Posted by RileyH

pipe down stacey drag race is on

Piece of bloody **** I tell ya

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by JerseyWins

But the main point was not to assume what the person's intentions are or what the relationship is/was like.

Sorry, when did we start discussing specific people (apart from Stephen Bear who seemed to get forgotten about 2 pages ago). We're ALL talking in GENERAL.

Originally Posted by JerseyWins

I also disagree that people cheat with the INTENT to hurt their partner.

Originally Posted by JerseyWins

It's going to hurt their partner, but the cheater usually has mixed emotions between two different people and does it selfishly for themselves, but not with the purpose to hurt their significant other. The purpose is not knowing what they truly want orrr just not caring, the latter being the worse reasoning but still a fairly common mindset you see in this generation's dating/love life. Not championing that mindset but that's just the truth these days Like I said, under normal circumstances it's a poor act to make in a relationship but no one really knows what's really going on in that relationship or just how bad it really was or the full reasoning. Either way, a bad act doesn't always/automatically make a bad person, that's where a lot of people here are jumping the gun.

Originally Posted by JerseyWins

Also people don't typically cheat with the intention to hurt their partner / loved one. And there's often a looooot more behind the relationship. There are also MANY different mindsets when it comes to cheating in relationships. In some places / some people's minds it's a very normal thing to occur, especially in younger generations.

It's normally under usual circumstances a bad act I'd agree with that, but even then that's not equivalent to actually being a bad person because you did something bad. Everyone does something bad.

People have massive problems with Bear over mainly very little issues. Whatever I guess, that's fair But he's a funny/entertaining guy and sorry if he's not to you cause you're missing out

So you can ASSUME all of this in a hypothetical scenario about "cheaters" to reach your opinion but mine's invalid?

No. You've gone so far off track you're tied in knots.

A bad act doesn't make a bad person, necessarily. Intentional actions that hurt and deceive another person is pretty sh*tty behaviour which goes a long way to showing me the measure of a person.

[Jake.]

Originally Posted by caprimint

The way he knows that without first hand experience which is more than you guys could do


Okay so when you have done things that are wrong do you always think of/consider the other person? Doubt it lmao

Unless you haven't been in that situation
Which also doesnt matter either way

People are not expected to act perfectly every time they are in a situation that requires more than a sentence on a screen

What? How do you know of anyone’s experience?

[Jigs]

Originally Posted by caprimint

Jigs you literally said TO ME that you don't want to be in a relationship, you only stay w your bf because he accepts you

Stop taking the moral highground

NNNNNNN it was a comment said in jest like 2 months ago but go off Stacist!

A scream @ you hanging off my every word. That photographic memory of yours

[Matthew.]

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Jake.

What? How do you know of anyone’s experience?

Jake: People...

Stacey: Don't speak about PEOPLE in GENERAL! You don't know them!

But lemme tell you about YOU!

[caprimint]

Originally Posted by JerseyWins

But the main point was not to assume what the person's intentions are or what the relationship is/was like.

I also disagree that people cheat with the INTENT to hurt their partner. It's going to hurt their partner, but the cheater usually has mixed emotions between two different people and does it selfishly for themselves, but not with the purpose to hurt their significant other. The purpose is not knowing what they truly want orrr just not caring, the latter being the worse reasoning but still a fairly common mindset you see in this generation's dating/love life. Not championing that mindset but that's just the truth these days Like I said, under normal circumstances it's a poor act to make in a relationship but no one really knows what's really going on in that relationship or just how bad it really was or the full reasoning. Either way, a bad act doesn't always/automatically make a bad person, that's where a lot of people here are jumping the gun.

You couldn't have spoken better from my own mind

Originally Posted by Marsh.

Not now you don't, no. So you drag discord mentions onto tibb to score points like a group of posters on here who don't even know what it is.
I hope the straws you're clutching are paper.

Originally Posted by Jigs

Strangely bitter about being culled from discord considering it's no ones fault but yer own love

Guys... pls. Stop embarrassing yourselves.

Everybody in my Trump discord is seeing how tragic yall are rn lmao

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by caprimint

Guys... pls. Stop embarrassing yourselves.

Everybody in my Trump discord is seeing how tragic yall are rn lmao

You brought discord into the discussion. The only embarrassment is you.

People pointing our cheating is not a good trait is clearly triggering you, work on that.

[Liam-]

There are instances where cheating doesn’t make someone a bad person, obviously, however, like I’ve said, I believe someone who chooses to cheat on a partner multiple times with multiple different people, just for fun, is not a good person,

[Jake.]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

Jake: People...

Stacey: Don't speak about PEOPLE in GENERAL! You don't know them!

But lemme tell you about YOU!

Honestly it’s ****ing drivel. Idk if they’re justifying Bear cheating or themselves cheating but it’s so convoluted and I don’t even think they know what point they’re actually trying to make anymore.

[Jigs]

A Trump discord im weak

[caprimint]

Originally Posted by Jake.

What? How do you know of anyone’s experience?

Oh Jake pls lmao. Stop trying to make it personal.

You're as bad as the rest of them which is sad to say

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by caprimint

Stop trying to make it personal.