[Ammi]

Originally Posted by MTVN

I did have some sympathy with him because he knows he overreacted, I think controlling his anger is probably something he's had to work quite hard at hence his disappointment in himself

It did also seem like his disagreement with Noky had finished because they smiled about how stupid they looked in the ant costumes and that's when Olivia made her comment which is what set him off because that's one of his better friends in the house who's now having a pop at him as well. In the end I think Olivia is right - he's allowed to be cranky sometimes and have a bad day but he should also apologise for the reaction because it was ott

….but then, in that learning to control his anger…if that was the thing…he also has to consider that he’s in the wrong place to enable that, which is what his thoughts are with the late night/early morning bedroom disruptions…’you have to adapt to me’ is his mindset…but if you want and hope for tolerance and understanding and consideration etc then you have to show tolerance and understanding and consideration etc…he’s a boxer, I think…so that …(I’m thinking…)…could be a channel/focus for his emotions and also all of the intense training etc involved …and he doesn’t have the outlet for that energy atm…and that could figure in…but it’s feeling a bit that he’s quite an intolerant person and it’s all about him….(…I’m thinking more in terms of the bedroom noise etc….)…