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Kazanne · 06-11-2023, 11:21 AM

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Originally Posted by Atake25

He said he tried to approach him many times during the day and Jordan blanked him , got up and walked out the room each time

Jordan explained to Henry (which wasnt shown on the main show !!!) he just wanted to be on his own for a while, like with his friends on the outside they dont see each other everyday and thats cool with them all, In the house they cannot get away for some alone time, Jordan just want time away,nothing wrong with that tbh. also Henry has pulled many a strop when Jordan and Matty have spent time together and now people saying Jordan should not feel pissed of hearing Henry and Matty talking about him,well hello,I think I would be miffed hearing my so called friend talking in secret about me, I'm sorry but I am now thinking Henry is looking for sympathy votes,and getting them what was all that in the DR for when Jordan had already apologised to him ? Jordan adores Matty but he doesnt need to be joined at the hip all day everyday, i know peole wont agree as they feel sorry for Henry,but that is how I see it, IF Jordan is hurting henry so much,he has legs stop crying and move away

Atake25 · 06-11-2023, 11:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Kazanne

Jordan explained to Henry (which wasnt shown on the main show !!!) he just wanted to be on his own for a while, like with his friends on the outside they dont see each other everyday and thats cool with them all, In the house they cannot get away for some alone time, Jordan just want time away,nothing wrong with that tbh. also Henry has pulled many a strop when Jordan and Matty have spent time together and now people saying Jordan should not feel pissed of hearing Henry and Matty talking about him,well hello,I think I would be miffed hearing my so called friend talking in secret about me, I'm sorry but I am now thinking Henry is looking for sympathy votes,and getting them what was all that in the DR for when Jordan had already apologised to him ? Jordan adores Matty but he doesnt need to be joined at the hip all day everyday, i know peole wont agree as they feel sorry for Henry,but that is how I see it, IF Jordan is hurting henry so much,he has legs stop crying and move away

They called Henry to the diary room he didn’t go there , he was in there for ages they were obviously quizzing him about the days events
Jordan ignored Henry all day he walked out of rooms when he entered he moved his bedding without asking him
He wasn’t just a mate seeking space because Henry approached him through the day asking for a chat if everything was ok and got the silent treatment
An explanation or a “ I just feel like being alone “ is what you are talking about but this wasn’t that , Jordan was upset with Henry and Matty chatting without him so he deliberately ignored him he even admitted tha he was acting like a tw@t

Liam- · 06-11-2023, 11:34 AM

Completely blanking someone you know has feelings for you, without any explanation, to punish them for talking to the other person you’re using, is not ‘needing space’ he was being a dick because he didn’t like the two people he’s playing coming together to discuss the fact that he’s playing them both, he treated Henry like dirt, then got back into bed with him and kissed him, he’s playing with peoples emotions and he even said himself, he said he was ‘testing’ Henry by completely blanking him all day, it’s emotionally abusive, I fear for the person who’s stupid enough to settle for him

caprimint · 06-11-2023, 11:37 AM

I think he's genuine, but he's not good at communicating his feelings at all. There have been multiple occasions now where he's spoken about things in the diary room and even to Trish and Matty about his thoughts/feelings about Jordan... to everyone except Jordan. So of course there's gonna be confusion and frustration when he's holding things in all the time

caprimint · 06-11-2023, 11:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Liam-

Completely blanking someone you know has feelings for you, without any explanation, to punish them for talking to the other person you’re using, is not ‘needing space’ he was being a dick because he didn’t like the two people he’s playing coming together to discuss the fact that he’s playing them both, he treated Henry like dirt, then got back into bed with him and kissed him, he’s playing with peoples emotions and he even said himself, he said he was ‘testing’ Henry by completely blanking him all day, it’s emotionally abusive, I fear for the person who’s stupid enough to settle for him

It was just his way of dealing with the situation

It's really not as deep as you make it out to be. Could he have dealt with things better? Sure, but sometimes in the moment you do things that aren't maybe the "right" thing to do and you realise it after which it seemed as though he did, hence his apology. Sulking is a pretty common initial feeling when you feel hurt/betrayed and at least he actually made sure he cleared it up after and spoke with Henry which is more than can be said for most of them lol

GlitterUK · 06-11-2023, 11:43 AM

I agree with the emotional abuse comment but as its Jordan he gets away with things - I would also add moving Henrys bed into that mix as a real hurtful thing to do. That could be seen as bullying also. Wonder if Trish will shout bully at him if she knew....guess she is waiting for Noky to load the gun.

Kazanne · 06-11-2023, 11:48 AM

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Originally Posted by caprimint

It was just his way of dealing with the situation

It's really not as deep as you make it out to be. Could he have dealt with things better? Sure, but sometimes in the moment you do things that aren't maybe the "right" thing to do and you realise it after which it seemed as though he did, hence his apology. Sulking is a pretty common initial feeling when you feel hurt/betrayed and at least he actually made sure he cleared it up after and spoke with Henry which is more than can be said for most of them lol

100% capri, as for the bed thing,it was silly but as you say he was sulking as Henry has done many a time, he apologised, its not that deep.

Atake25 · 06-11-2023, 11:50 AM

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Originally Posted by GlitterUK

I agree with the emotional abuse comment but as its Jordan he gets away with things - I would also add moving Henrys bed into that mix as a real hurtful thing to do. That could be seen as bullying also. Wonder if Trish will shout bully at him if she knew....guess she is waiting for Noky to load the gun.

Trish did pull Jordan up about his behaviour in fact when Jordan started putting Henry’s things back after the argument she said infront of both of them “are you happy about this Henry? , don’t just go along with what Jordan wants all the time , this has to be your decision “ or words to that effect

Vanessa · 06-11-2023, 12:32 PM

I really hope Henry is genuine.
I'm actually glad they made up.

GlitterUK · 06-11-2023, 01:46 PM

I think Henry should keep him as friends, if Henry won I could see Jordan using him further. Henry is too good for Jordan.

Atake25 · 06-11-2023, 01:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Kazanne

Jordan explained to Henry (which wasnt shown on the main show !!!) he just wanted to be on his own for a while, like with his friends on the outside they dont see each other everyday and thats cool with them all, In the house they cannot get away for some alone time, Jordan just want time away,nothing wrong with that tbh. also Henry has pulled many a strop when Jordan and Matty have spent time together and now people saying Jordan should not feel pissed of hearing Henry and Matty talking about him,well hello,I think I would be miffed hearing my so called friend talking in secret about me, I'm sorry but I am now thinking Henry is looking for sympathy votes,and getting them what was all that in the DR for when Jordan had already apologised to him ? Jordan adores Matty but he doesnt need to be joined at the hip all day everyday, i know peole wont agree as they feel sorry for Henry,but that is how I see it, IF Jordan is hurting henry so much,he has legs stop crying and move away

We saw that explanation on the live feed starting at 11pm so that’s a whole 24 hours of no explanation and cold shoulders
He admits he acted like a Tw@t and he did and he was still acting like Tw@t to Matty
He needs to communicate more blanking people without an explanation is immature at best controlling and manipulative at worst