[Parmy]

Originally Posted by Quantum Boy

Is this suggesting that rugby is viewed somehow differently/note favourably?

Because University rugby teams are literally the biggest heap of utter bellends I've yet to encounter, anywhere, at all, in my entire life. The actual worst.

I wont be answering anymore questions from you until you answer the one I asked you

[user104658]

Originally Posted by Beso

I wont be answering anymore questions from you until you answer the one I asked you

I'm not going to check back so you'll need to repeat it.

[Parmy]

Originally Posted by Quantum Boy

I'm not going to check back so you'll need to repeat it.

Do you find the walk on girls sexy?

[user104658]

Originally Posted by Beso

Do you find the walk on girls sexy?

I did answer that and said that I don't find anything about it sexy in the slightest. I'm sorry if that's not the answer you want?

Are you asking if I think they're objectively good looking? I'm sure I'd think some of them are, some of them aren't. I don't find 20 year olds sexy or attractive in any way. I fundamentally disagree with the premise that older men will "always" be more attracted to younger women. Girls in their 20's look like teenagers to me. There's nothing sexy about that. I saw it differently when I was Mock's age, because they weren't much younger than me. I find the picture posted of the old man looking in the mirror and seeing himself as a young man in his 20's (and thus excusing being still attracted to much younger women) a false and abhorrent thing to normalise about men. We ain't all like that. The idea that we "secretly are" is BS.

But apparently some of them are older so maybe I'd agree that some of them are attractive? I doubt they all look the same? How can anyone say that every last one is attractive/sexy ... What a wide net to cast. It's always going to be subjective.

Even if I did think they were attractive, seeing the walk-on darts parade would be immediately and completely un-sexy.

If you're really that nosy about what gets me going though Parmy, for some reason... Here it is - what I find sexy has nothing to do with anything you can gatger from a picture or seeing someone on telly. So even the age-appropriate ones, I can't tell you if I think they're "sexy". I haven't met them.

That's all a bit long winded so here's the short answer;

"Do I look at darts walk on girls and think ooh how sexy"

The answer is "no".

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by Quantum Boy

I did answer that and said that I don't find anything about it sexy in the slightest. I'm sorry if that's not the answer you want?

Are you asking if I think they're objectively good looking? I'm sure I'd think some of them are, some of them aren't. I don't find 20 year olds sexy or attractive in any way. I fundamentally disagree with the premise that older men will "always" be more attracted to younger women. Girls in their 20's look like teenagers to me. There's nothing sexy about that. I saw it differently when I was Mock's age, because they weren't much younger than me. I find the picture posted of the old man looking in the mirror and seeing himself as a young man in his 20's (and thus excusing being still attracted to much younger women) a false and abhorrent thing to normalise about men. We ain't all like that. The idea that we "secretly are" is BS.

But apparently some of them are older so maybe I'd agree that some of them are attractive? I doubt they all look the same? How can anyone say that every last one is attractive/sexy ... What a wide net to cast. It's always going to be subjective.

Even if I did think they were attractive, seeing the walk-on darts parade would be immediately and completely un-sexy.

If you're really that nosy about what gets me going though Parmy, for some reason... Here it is - what I find sexy has nothing to do with anything you can gatger from a picture or seeing someone on telly. So even the age-appropriate ones, I can't tell you if I think they're "sexy". I haven't met them.

That's all a bit long winded so here's the short answer;

"Do I look at darts walk on girls and think ooh how sexy"

The answer is "no".

Isn’t your step mum the same age or younger than you ?

What was your dad when he m t her and how old was she ?

[user104658]

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

Isn’t your step mum the same age or younger than you ?

What was your dad when he m t her and how old was she ?

About 6 years older, and she was in her late 30's and him in his late 50's.

If he'd been picking up 20 year olds I'll be frank and say I'd have been very, very concerned and most likely would have cut contact.

Again though, everyone is extremely distracted by the age part of things here when that's really a sub-plot in this thread, I've said 4 or 5 times that it isn't better that the women are in their 30's, and it wouldn't be better if they were in their 40's, or 50's, or any other age bracket.

Id just the old lads a little less if it was older women, but the thing itself would still be objectifying and damaging. I wouldn't judge the organisers any less. It's not just gross "because of their age".

[Christmas Dynasnow]

Originally Posted by Quantum Boy

About 6 years older, and she was in her late 30's and him in his late 50's.

If he'd been picking up 20 year olds I'll be frank and say I'd have been very, very concerned and most likely would have cut contact.

Again though, everyone is extremely distracted by the age part of things here when that's really a sub-plot in this thread, I've said 4 or 5 times that it isn't better that the women are in their 30's, and it wouldn't be better if they were in their 40's, or 50's, or any other age bracket.

Id just the old lads a little less if it was older women, but the thing itself would still be objectifying and damaging. I wouldn't judge the organisers any less. It's not just gross "because of their age".

What age are the women characters in all the PS5 games you play

hopefully most will be 40s 50s and 60s?

I just checked one you like to Play called Until Dawn

here is a main character

[Parmy]

Originally Posted by Quantum Boy

I did answer that and said that I don't find anything about it sexy in the slightest. I'm sorry if that's not the answer you want?

Are you asking if I think they're objectively good looking? I'm sure I'd think some of them are, some of them aren't. I don't find 20 year olds sexy or attractive in any way. I fundamentally disagree with the premise that older men will "always" be more attracted to younger women. Girls in their 20's look like teenagers to me. There's nothing sexy about that. I saw it differently when I was Mock's age, because they weren't much younger than me. I find the picture posted of the old man looking in the mirror and seeing himself as a young man in his 20's (and thus excusing being still attracted to much younger women) a false and abhorrent thing to normalise about men. We ain't all like that. The idea that we "secretly are" is BS.

But apparently some of them are older so maybe I'd agree that some of them are attractive? I doubt they all look the same? How can anyone say that every last one is attractive/sexy ... What a wide net to cast. It's always going to be subjective.

Even if I did think they were attractive, seeing the walk-on darts parade would be immediately and completely un-sexy.

If you're really that nosy about what gets me going though Parmy, for some reason... Here it is - what I find sexy has nothing to do with anything you can gatger from a picture or seeing someone on telly. So even the age-appropriate ones, I can't tell you if I think they're "sexy". I haven't met them.

That's all a bit long winded so here's the short answer;

"Do I look at darts walk on girls and think ooh how sexy"

The answer is "no".

So it's your snobbery that thinks everyone else does.

[user104658]

Originally Posted by Beso

So it's your snobbery that thinks everyone else does.

I've not once said that everyone else does? The ones who like the walk on girls being there/argue that it's something that should continue are the ones I have an issue with. Plenty of people I'm sure couldn't give a sht if they're there or not. It's an outdated misogynistic practice that belongs in the past. People who agree with that will be fine with putting an end to it, people who aren't bothered either way will be fine with putting an end to it... The only ones who will have an issue with stopping it are the ones who actively enjoy it. Ogling.

Of course you'll get some who are simply stuck on the idea that "it's traditional!" and just don't like any sort of change in general but is there even any reason to go down that path. It's just not a good enough reason by far. Bin it off.

[Parmy]

Originally Posted by Quantum Boy

I've not once said that everyone else does? The ones who like the walk on girls being there/argue that it's something that should continue are the ones I have an issue with. Plenty of people I'm sure couldn't give a sht if they're there or not. It's an outdated misogynistic practice that belongs in the past. People who agree with that will be fine with putting an end to it, people who aren't bothered either way will be fine with putting an end to it... The only ones who will have an issue with stopping it are the ones who actively enjoy it. Ogling.

Of course you'll get some who are simply stuck on the idea that "it's traditional!" and just don't like any sort of change in general but is there even any reason to go down that path. It's just not a good enough reason by far. Bin it off.

And the ladies themselves, the ladies will have issues with it being cancelled. Dont you think?

[Merry Mockmas]

Originally Posted by Quantum Boy

I did answer that and said that I don't find anything about it sexy in the slightest. I'm sorry if that's not the answer you want?

Are you asking if I think they're objectively good looking? I'm sure I'd think some of them are, some of them aren't. I don't find 20 year olds sexy or attractive in any way. I fundamentally disagree with the premise that older men will "always" be more attracted to younger women. Girls in their 20's look like teenagers to me. There's nothing sexy about that. I saw it differently when I was Mock's age, because they weren't much younger than me. I find the picture posted of the old man looking in the mirror and seeing himself as a young man in his 20's (and thus excusing being still attracted to much younger women) a false and abhorrent thing to normalise about men. We ain't all like that. The idea that we "secretly are" is BS.

But apparently some of them are older so maybe I'd agree that some of them are attractive? I doubt they all look the same? How can anyone say that every last one is attractive/sexy ... What a wide net to cast. It's always going to be subjective.

Even if I did think they were attractive, seeing the walk-on darts parade would be immediately and completely un-sexy.

If you're really that nosy about what gets me going though Parmy, for some reason... Here it is - what I find sexy has nothing to do with anything you can gatger from a picture or seeing someone on telly. So even the age-appropriate ones, I can't tell you if I think they're "sexy". I haven't met them.

That's all a bit long winded so here's the short answer;

"Do I look at darts walk on girls and think ooh how sexy"

The answer is "no".

I agree with you that what people find attractive is subjective, as are most things really.

The thing that I will say (and maybe it's just me) but how many people in their 60's are going to find other people in their 60's the most attractive? With all due respect but that's not really very likely as Human Beings in general I don't believe work like that.