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Originally Posted by thesheriff443

Isn’t your step mum the same age or younger than you ?

What was your dad when he m t her and how old was she ?

About 6 years older, and she was in her late 30's and him in his late 50's.

If he'd been picking up 20 year olds I'll be frank and say I'd have been very, very concerned and most likely would have cut contact.

Again though, everyone is extremely distracted by the age part of things here when that's really a sub-plot in this thread, I've said 4 or 5 times that it isn't better that the women are in their 30's, and it wouldn't be better if they were in their 40's, or 50's, or any other age bracket.

Id just the old lads a little less if it was older women, but the thing itself would still be objectifying and damaging. I wouldn't judge the organisers any less. It's not just gross "because of their age".