[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Ammi

…one of the things that I really like with Hanah…?…all of her responses during the escalation of the row might not have been textbook perfect…?..but regardless of fault and where it lay in different parts of it all…?…it’s something that envelopes so much negative energy that it takes time then to reflect and give thought to etc…and Hanah took that time because I think that’s natural also and something many of us can relate to..not now/not right at this moment/ I can’t hug and make up, type thing because she would have felt that to be a false gesture…?…whereas Martha showed quite extremes of character there and less balanced…she went from…yeah girl, go get your wingman, let’s do this …!!!!!!!!….to oh besties, I love you type thing…which hmmmmm is much less balanced and level as Hanah…but sadly I’m thinking that Hanah might more get the ‘labelling’ of ‘aggression’….

yeah not sure what to make of that, some people can blow though and then its done and dusted, I think Martha liked having the backing of the group so that egged her on a bit, solo its a different matter