[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by vesavius

I don't think anyone gets to say what is ok or not for another person to say.

I don't use the N word because I am told I am not 'allowed to', I don't say it because I know some people can't control themselves and I don't go out of my way to make others mad because what's the point?

Like I said Emily did not have that rapport with Charley, they'd just met, plus it's how things are perceived whether we like it or not.

I'm not going to start calling white people " cracker" for a laugh, as I know it's offensive.


If Khaled had just met Ali and called her the D word ...I'm pretty sure she'd go ballistic. And as we know Ali already overthinks stuff ,so can you imagine.