[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Swan

This is how i know im getting old, that's something i may have asked someone when i was 20, but now when meeting a potential partner i wouldn't even dream of asking something like that, it wouldn't even enter my mind. Instead i'd be asking questions like "oh i bet the weather was nice"?? "were the drinks cheap, what did you eat, what was your hotel like"??

…it’s not so much even that it’s what he said that he did/or did…it’s more for me, that Elsa attaches emotionally so easily and Marcus attaches physically very easily in a way that doesn’t necessarily involve any emotional attachment…?…so it it’s doesn’t feel like something that could be a good coupling as her ‘farmhouse/horse husband’……

…but I don’t think that it’s about you getting old..?…so much as about Elsa in her own neediness of behaviour and that needing to feel that what Marcus feels for her is ‘special and emotional and romantic’, you know…?…that he’s deeping for her as they say…so to validate her importance to him, comparisons to other aspects of his relationships etc are important for her…in my own opinion, really…