[Tom]

Originally Posted by Captain.Remy

By the way, life isn't a fairy tale, sharks often finish first. At some point, you need to be ruthless and cut throat to be a leader in Business situations.
I could say it's the same in sports (as a sportsman myself) because you need to be strong, tough and play it nasty sometimes but it depends on the context.
Being nice in life will somehow gets your screwed big time.

And if you're too nice people will walk right over you thinking they can take the piss.

My life is pretty damn good atm but I've had some pretty dodgy decisions/situations to get it there ... would be nowhere near the same if I was nice