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Enid · 19-12-2009, 03:35 PM

A "nice" narcissist? Isn't that an oxymoron? Lol

Captain.Remy · 19-12-2009, 03:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Enid

A "nice" narcissist? Isn't that an oxymoron? Lol

Probably but that's me.

Tom · 19-12-2009, 04:23 PM

I'm not nice and not doing too badly

I'm really manipulative, I can flip my personality to get what I want and if I don't get what I want (rare) then I go on the war path against those who got in the way

Captain.Remy · 19-12-2009, 04:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Tom

I'm not nice and not doing too badly

I'm really manipulative, I can flip my personality to get what I want and if I don't get what I want (rare) then I go on the war path against those who got in the way

We definitely should create our own club lmao

Nice people and haters to the left.

Niamh. · 19-12-2009, 04:28 PM

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I really do think nice guys finish last. Women these days seem to go for 'The Bad Boy' puzzles me, thinking they can change them and that. Some girls laugh at you if you try to be nice to them. Then in two years they're living in a flat with 3 kids while the guy has fucked off. So maybe it's stupid girls finish last?

My hubby is a nice guy and he never finishes last!!!

WOMBAI · 19-12-2009, 04:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Captain.Remy

We definitely should create our own club lmao

Nice people and haters to the left.

I'm going with the notion that those that talk the talk - don't walk the walk!

Tom · 19-12-2009, 04:31 PM

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Originally Posted by WOMBAI

I'm going with the notion that those that talk the talk - don't walk the walk!

and how do you draw that conclusion?

WOMBAI · 19-12-2009, 04:32 PM

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and how do you draw that conclusion?

Often the case!

Enid · 19-12-2009, 04:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Captain.Remy

We definitely should create our own club lmao

Nice people and haters to the left.

Brilliant idea! It could be called "The Nazi Party"

Tom as Hitler and Remy as Mussolini, or Stalin. Your choice really.

Tom · 19-12-2009, 04:34 PM

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Originally Posted by WOMBAI

Often the case!

Doesn't mean its always the case though does it? And looking at the bigger picture I'd say on the whole nice guys do finish last.

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Brilliant idea! It could be called "The Nazi Party"

Tom as Hitler and Remy as Mussolini, or Stalin. Your choice really.

Hitlers tash would to nothing for me, so I'm not being him!

Enid · 19-12-2009, 04:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Tom

Doesn't mean its always the case though does it? And looking at the bigger picture I'd say on the whole nice guys do finish last.

Hitlers tash would to nothing for me, so I'm not being him!

Well fight it out between ya. :P

WOMBAI · 19-12-2009, 04:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Tom

Doesn't mean its always the case though does it? And looking at the bigger picture I'd say on the whole nice guys do finish last.

Hitlers tash would to nothing for me, so I'm not being him!

Your avatar is pretty much a female version!

Captain.Remy · 19-12-2009, 04:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Enid

Brilliant idea! It could be called "The Nazi Party"

Tom as Hitler and Remy as Mussolini, or Stalin. Your choice really.

Both lol

And being a nice narcissistic bastard doesn't mean being a dictator from what I know.

But if Tom and I were to create this club, would you join the fun ?

Tom · 19-12-2009, 04:36 PM

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Originally Posted by WOMBAI

Your avatar is pretty much a female version!

Poor Maggie

See, I do have a nice side! Its just a shame that my not so nice side is more dominant

Enid · 19-12-2009, 04:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Captain.Remy

Both lol

And being a nice narcissistic bastard doesn't mean being a dictator from what I know.

But if Tom and I were to create this club, would you join the fun ?

Am I a nice narcissistic bastard?

Captain.Remy · 19-12-2009, 04:37 PM

By the way, life isn't a fairy tale, sharks often finish first. At some point, you need to be ruthless and cut throat to be a leader in Business situations.
I could say it's the same in sports (as a sportsman myself) because you need to be strong, tough and play it nasty sometimes but it depends on the context.
Being nice in life will somehow gets your screwed big time.

Tom · 19-12-2009, 04:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Captain.Remy

By the way, life isn't a fairy tale, sharks often finish first. At some point, you need to be ruthless and cut throat to be a leader in Business situations.
I could say it's the same in sports (as a sportsman myself) because you need to be strong, tough and play it nasty sometimes but it depends on the context.
Being nice in life will somehow gets your screwed big time.

And if you're too nice people will walk right over you thinking they can take the piss.

My life is pretty damn good atm but I've had some pretty dodgy decisions/situations to get it there ... would be nowhere near the same if I was nice

Captain.Remy · 19-12-2009, 04:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Enid

Am I a nice narcissistic bastard?

Maybe not but you have enough vice and perverseness to bring out.

Enid · 19-12-2009, 04:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Captain.Remy

Maybe not but you have enough vice and perverseness to bring out.

Well in that case, if I join I want to wear an SS uniform. They were super sexy.

Crimson Dynamo · 19-12-2009, 04:39 PM

Jesus did ok in the end, well apart from the crucifixion bit.

WOMBAI · 19-12-2009, 04:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Captain.Remy

By the way, life isn't a fairy tale, sharks often finish first. At some point, you need to be ruthless and cut throat to be a leader in Business situations.
I could say it's the same in sports (as a sportsman myself) because you need to be strong, tough and play it nasty sometimes but it depends on the context.
Being nice in life will somehow gets your screwed big time.

Don't agree! You can certainly be nice but savvy - and in contrast - a thick shark. It's intelligence that begets success - not playing it nasty!

Enid · 19-12-2009, 04:40 PM

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Jesus did ok in the end, well apart from the crucifixion bit.

I'm still trying to figure you out, LT. Tough nut to crack.

Captain.Remy · 19-12-2009, 04:41 PM

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And if you're too nice people will walk right over you thinking they can take the piss.

My life is pretty damn good atm but I've had some pretty dodgy decisions/situations to get it there ... would be nowhere near the same if I was nice

Exactly. By always saying yes and showing you're too available, people won't see the red line and good luck to bring it back. Like I said, you're screwed at the point.
By being mean and cold, you can prevent people from taking over or upsetting you. You have the control. However, to not be bitten back is an art

Tom · 19-12-2009, 04:41 PM

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Don't agree! You can certainly be nice but savvy - and in contrast - a thick shark. It's intelligence that begets success - not playing it nasty!

I'm pretty intelligent (did very well in school/college) and I'm much more aware of situations than people realise I am ... and I use that to get my own way by twisting other people

So I wouldn't say its intelligence itself that gets you somewhere, its how you use it. Like say if I have a degree, I can get a better job. But what about using your mind and other people to get another job which is just as well paid as the one you could get?