[M X]

No I wouldn't be disappointed at all.

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by MichaelSpears

No I wouldn't be disappointed at all.

really?

[Miss Ivy Balls]

I think this should be locked to be honest.

Homophobia is against the rules.

[Niamh.]

It's an interesting topic Thomas and people haven't been homophobic in here at all

[Mr XcX]

Just because you do not believe in our views Thomas does not mean we have to close the thread!

[Patrick]

Originally Posted by Thomas C

I think this should be locked to be honest.

Homophobia is against the rules.

It's not Homophobic at all, Jesus Christ.

[Patrick]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

I think a lot of how you bring your children up will decide this. It would be interesting to look at the parents of say 1000 gay people and compare notes. I would wager many similarities.

No one really wants their children to be gay, they deal with it if they have to.

That's got NOTHING at all to do with it.

In some aspects, if a child was brought up in a family or a house with alot of girls and no man figure,
They could turn out camp really.

But the way someone brings a child up is hardly going to influence who they are attracted to.

You're Born Gay and You're Born Straight really.

You can't change it whilst growing up, no matter what a parent does to steer you straight.

[Patrick]

Originally Posted by Stu

Of course harbouring the view that you would let two girls do the dirty in your house but not two guys is utterly stupid.

Not it is not.

Think of it this way Stu,

Would you rather watch Lesbian Porn or Gay Porn?
Obviously if my kids turned out gay I wouldn't watch them or get turned on by the thought of them doing it upstairs.

But I'd be much more happier with the fact my daughter and her girlfriend are doing it, than my son and his boyfriend.

I don't know why,
I'm not homophobic, I just don't like the thought of two males doing things to eachother.

Like I said, they can do it all they want just not around me and don't mention it to me and it's fine.

[MissKittyFantastico]

No it wouldn't bother me, not saying it would be my first choice for them because I would worry that they would struggle to come to terms with it themselves, but I'd hope that as a parent I'd have taught them that it doesn't matter what you are, it's who you are that counts.

[Barbie]

I can't see how anyone could be dissapointed.

I wouldnt be bouncing off the walls it just wouldn't make any difference to me at all

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Patrick

Not it is not.

Think of it this way Stu,

Would you rather watch Lesbian Porn or Gay Porn?

This isnt watching porn though, its listening to your kids having sex :S

I wouldnt like to hear my kids having sex with anyone tbh...

[Miss Ivy Balls]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

This isnt watching porn though, its listening to your kids having sex :S

I wouldnt like to hear my kids having sex with anyone tbh...

Summed it up well there Vicky.

Negative views towards gay people is classed as homophobia. Not my words, the dictionaries.

But hayyyyyyyyy....w/e.

[Chels]

Originally Posted by Patrick

Not it is not.

Think of it this way Stu,

Would you rather watch Lesbian Porn or Gay Porn?
Obviously if my kids turned out gay I wouldn't watch them or get turned on by the thought of them doing it upstairs.

But I'd be much more happier with the fact my daughter and her girlfriend are doing it, than my son and his boyfriend.

I don't know why,
I'm not homophobic, I just don't like the thought of two males doing things to eachother.

Like I said, they can do it all they want just not around me and don't mention it to me and it's fine.

So you'd want to watch/listen to your own kids have sex? That's actually disturbing to know...

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Patrick

That's got NOTHING at all to do with it.

In some aspects, if a child was brought up in a family or a house with alot of girls and no man figure,
They could turn out camp really.

But the way someone brings a child up is hardly going to influence who they are attracted to.

You're Born Gay and You're Born Straight really.

You can't change it whilst growing up, no matter what a parent does to steer you straight.

There is no evidence to support what you say but plenty evidence to suggest upbringing.

As I say there are many similarities in parents of gay children

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Thomas C

I think this should be locked to be honest.

Homophobia is against the rules.

then state the posts that are homophobic..

then we can all judge

[Benjamin]

Originally Posted by Thomas C

Summed it up well there Vicky.

Negative views towards gay people is classed as homophobia. Not my words, the dictionaries.

But hayyyyyyyyy....w/e.

Thomas what the hell are you on about? This is a serious discussion tha occurs in the world we live in, nobody is slagging off gay people!

My mum at first wasn't happy that I was gay, but she soon dealt with it and now is supportive with it.

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Thomas C

Summed it up well there Vicky.

Negative views towards gay people is classed as homophobia. Not my words, the dictionaries.

But hayyyyyyyyy....w/e.

saying that you would not want your son or daughter to be (for example) disabled is not being negative about disability. Same goes in this thread.

[Patrick]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

This isnt watching porn though, its listening to your kids having sex :S

I wouldnt like to hear my kids having sex with anyone tbh...

I used porn as an example as to what you're comfortable with.

I'm more comfortable with the fact my daughter would be sleeping with a girl in my house, than knowing my son would be ******ing his boyfriend in my house.


People just have different views really.

[Ninastar]

No I wouldn't. I would treat them like you would with any kid, gay or straight.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by ukturtle

Thomas what the hell are you on about? This is a serious discussion tha occurs in the world we live in, nobody is slagging off gay people!

My mum at first wasn't happy that I was gay, but she soon dealt with it and now is supportive with it.

I think, speaking as a mother, it would be more of worry for your child than anything else, that they will have alot more to deal with in life than a straight person would. Eventhough attitudes have changed dramatically in the last few years.

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Ninastar

No I wouldn't. I would treat them like you would with any kid, gay or straight.

This thread is not about how you would treat them

[Patrick]

Originally Posted by Chels

So you'd want to watch/listen to your own kids have sex? That's actually disturbing to know...

It's quite ******ing stupid that you just blatantly ignored the sentence that followed the quote that you just posted.

Or did you just chose to highlight that part and ignore what I just said under there for another reason?

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Niamhxo

I think, speaking as a mother, it would be more of worry for your child than anything else, that they will have alot more to deal with in life than a straight person would. Eventhough attitudes have changed dramatically in the last few years.

and every mum and dad wants the child to have a relationship like they did with children.

fact

[Ninastar]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

This thread is not about how you would treat them

Im just saying how it wouldnt make a difference to me, and that I wouldn't act differently with them.

[Patrick]

Originally Posted by Thomas C

Summed it up well there Vicky.

Negative views towards gay people is classed as homophobia. Not my words, the dictionaries.

But hayyyyyyyyy....w/e.

That's bollocks.

DISCRIMINATING against them, Singling them out and saying Homophobic remarks is Homophobic.

Not wanting your child to ****** another man upstairs is not homophobic especially when I said he can do whatever he likes just not in my house.