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Originally Posted by Shaun
isn't that rather the point  it all depends on whether the friend is over the split or not.
If they are, I don't really see a reason why not...I just personally probably wouldn't because I have extremely neurotic friends.
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Even if I was over it though, as in, I no longer felt any emotional attachment to the ex, I still wouldn't be fine with it. I just couldn't hang out with that friend while the ex was there, for example, seeing them acting like a couple when that had been me with them previously; it'd be like watching Mean Girls in real life

. If they ended up being together for life, then that's great for them, but I'd never get over that initial betrayal of friendship. I value my friends a lot.