[Niall]

Originally Posted by Ninastar

idk, I think men are good looking but it doesn't really go further than that

So you aren't sexually or emotionally attracted to them?

[Ninastar]

Originally Posted by Niall

So you aren't sexually or emotionally attracted to them?

not really

[Niall]

Originally Posted by Ninastar

not really

Me thinks you is a lesbian then.

[CharlieO]

Originally Posted by Ninastar

not really

To assume your lesbian because your not attracted to men is probably a snap reaction which isn't the case. In honesty, I know it sounds cheesy but you probably haven't found the right person. Have you been exposed to a feeling of love with any human being yet? If not then how can one assume because you haven't experienced something means its not there.

[Ninastar]

Originally Posted by CharlieOsborne

To assume your lesbian because your not attracted to men is probably a snap reaction which isn't the case. In honesty, I know it sounds cheesy but you probably haven't found the right person. Have you been exposed to a feeling of love with any human being yet? If not then how can one assume because you haven't experienced something means its not there.

i see what you mean and everything, but im pretty sure there is nothing there.

[Christmas Dynasnow]

Originally Posted by Ninastar

i see what you mean and everything, but im pretty sure there is nothing there.

Concentrate on studies and career and park your "sexuality" until you are a bit older.

Also go to the gym

[KG.]

Originally Posted by Ninastar

thanks, I can talk to my friends about it, but Im scared it goes round school and gets back home some how. Im also scared people gunna be like ewww when they see me. and what people think about me.

That's natural to feel that way, me and pretty much every other gay/bi person I know felt exactly the same way before coming out, building it up to be one of the worst things in the world, then finding it actually more.. normal than you could have ever imagined. Though I do know this probably won't help because you'll still be worried as I and everybody else was, but when/if you do eventually feel comfortable enough about it to be completely open about it, you'll be surprised at how many people really don't mind/care about what you are.