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Originally Posted by Jords

They wont be 40 when the child is say 18, theyd be 58 and Im not saying they cant but its just limiting on what interests you can share. Whereas a young parent would have much more in common with you (theyd only be 38 when youre 18 if they had you at 20). Its just about being more relatable.

I don't think having a kid over 40 is ideal either but my mother is 58 and she goes out more than I do I understand what you're saying but if you have had built a decent relationship with your kids as they're growing up, then you'll always be able to relate to them no matter what age you are. It's not much good being close in age if your relationship doesn't have good foundations. (not saying that all younger parents won't have good foundations of course)