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Another thing to think about is that the abortion will, obviously, have an impact upon your relationship. It may cause your relationship to disintegrate, even, if either partner starts putting blame on the other in some way. On the other hand, a child will grow up without a mother - whereas the parents could, as someone said, adopt a child who doesn't have any parents. But then they don't get to have their own child and risk having a very fractured relationship.