[lostalex]

I think the idea of Asexuaity is interesting. I personally don't like labels on sexuality, i think sexuality is very fluid.

Homosexuality means you prefer sex with men, but i certainly don't want to have sex with all men or even most men, i'd say less than 1% of men i'd actually want to have sex with, so am i really homosexual? same for heterosexuals, or bisexuals, also there are all the "fetishes" feet, or bondage, or armpits, or furry. rough and violent, or soft and loving. There are so many variations and you're preference can change from day to day.

I've definitely been through periods of my life where the absolute last thing i'd ever want to do is have sex. Did that make me "asexual" during those times?

I think sexuality is very misunderstood, and in trying to understand it we try to create labels and groups and segregations. I don't think that's a particularly helpful or intelligent approach.