[Ammi]

Originally Posted by lostalex

If i could do it all again, knowing what i know now... things would be so different.


That's what we all say.

I wish reincarnation was real if I could do it again.

If I could be myself all over again, I'd do it so much better.

..the beauty of hindsight...but we were meant to make mistakes as well, Alex..it's all a balance, if we did everything right all the time, then we wouldn't really have any 'substance' because we learn so much from our 'mistakes' and we carry those lessons through to the future...obviously, we can never change the past, so any time regretting anything is pointless energy..but what we can do is to assess our present and look at anything that we feel we can change about it, to make our future more what we won't have 'regrets' about...if we decide on any changes though, they should always be achievable and maybe just 'step by step' things..I think that maybe when people set very high 'goals', they're subconsciously setting themselves up for failure because they don't really believe in themselves...that's not always the case obviously, but it often is....