[lostalex]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..the beauty of hindsight...but we were meant to make mistakes as well, Alex..it's all a balance, if we did everything right all the time, then we wouldn't really have any 'substance' because we learn so much from our 'mistakes' and we carry those lessons through to the future...obviously, we can never change the past, so any time regretting anything is pointless energy..but what we can do is to assess our present and look at anything that we feel we can change about it, to make our future more what we won't have 'regrets' about...if we decide on any changes though, they should always be achievable and maybe just 'step by step' things..I think that maybe when people set very high 'goals', they're subconsciously setting themselves up for failure because they don't really believe in themselves...that's not always the case obviously, but it often is....

yup.

for any goal, it's important to start now.

One year from now, you will either be one year closer or one year farther from your goals. there's no reason to wait.

but we like to imagine that in an alternate universe we would do things differently, but we probably wouldn't.

...Even if we were reincarnated as ourselves, we'd probably do things exactly the same way again, because we'd still be ourselves.

It's funny how we all have a fantasy of what we should be, even though we already are exactly what we should be, we created ourselves, every bit of ourselves, but we can't take accountability for it.

Everyone i've ever met thinks they are a victim in some way or another. No one thinks that who and what they are is who they really are, they all think they could be better.

everyone is a victim