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Originally Posted by LiamPRW

But we do know where it came from, it was all due to the conversation that was had between them by the table about surprise evictions, Gary understood what Dee was saying and it was all fine, then went off on a tangent like Gary does quite regularly, which confused Dee and she got frustrated, that's when he came out with the line 'do you want a fight?' because he could see that she was getting annoyed/frustrated, whether he did it on purpose can be argued until we've all turned blue, but it wound her up.
And i agree with you about the comment she made, it wasn't necessary, but i don't think she should be particularly given warning about it, but she should definitely be told that things like that shouldn't be said in the house, whether joking or not.

The problem is that Dee has used aggressive language a number of times now. I will scratch anyones eyes out that nominates my babies, I will smash so and so's head in etc. On their own, its possible to put it down to frustration etc, but when its persistent, it gives off an air of overtly aggressive behaviour.

The other thing that really annoys me is that she and others keep coming up with this carer thing, its another attempt to demean Gary's worth in the house. No-one has asked them to be a carer, but it should be normal for people to have concern and affection for their fellow man. If its a task for them, then they have no need to do it or make Martyrs of themselves. So the only reason they say these things are to try and demean Gary. I don't consider that pleasant behaviour at all, and when it comes from the person that sets herself up as the supposed nurturing "mother of the house" , something doesn't add up.

All in all, the person she tries to project, is not the person she is in reality