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Originally Posted by Livia

Having a nanny doesn't mean you're having it all. Having a nanny means you're having a career while someone else is bringing up your child. That's what I mean by not being able to have it all.

It's always the women that get told they're not having it all or that someone else is raising their child though, no one ever says that to men, it really pisses me off. I think that's what annoys me most. I understand what point you were making though and I agree that ideally a child should be raised by it's parents/family, it just annoys me that women are the bad guys or the ones accused of "wanting it all" and the dads are just being men