[Kyle]

Originally Posted by Ashley.

I don't think it's about people "changing" their sexuality at all. I mean, let's say me for example, I have liked boys all my life so I consider myself straight. But what if I see a girl and I like the look of her? I've never shown interest towards girls in the past. So have I been straight up until this point?

Then again, I suppose it's like saying we're asexual until we first fall in love with someone. We're not actually asexual, it's just an empty jar yet to be filled.

But would you be interested in that girl in a sexual way or by the fact that you are possibly temporarily allured to her charm/personality or the way she carries herself?

You mentioned to me the other day that you are around your early 20's so I would have hoped by now you would have noticed an attraction to females in general if you were by now but I don't know. Have you ever thought that you could be capable of being sexually attracted to a girl? What do you think of female sexual organs in general?

[Vanessa]

I think so, because it's not a choice for sure. It's something out of your control.

[Ashley.]

Originally Posted by Kyle

But would you be interested in that girl in a sexual way or by the fact that you are possibly temporarily allured to her charm/personality or the way she carries herself?

You mentioned to me the other day that you are around your early 20's so I would have hoped by now you would have noticed an attraction to females in general if you were by now but I don't know have you ever thought that you could be capable of being sexually attracted to a girl? What do you think of female sexual organs in general?

Yes, I was alluding to sexual attraction. I've always considered myself as straight because I've only liked men and not women, but I've never ruled out the possibility of being with a woman because it's not something that I've experienced and outrightly said I didn't like.a

Don't worry, I know the difference between a supermodel and an ugly if that's what you're saying.

[Kyle]

Originally Posted by Ashley.

Yes, I was alluding to sexual attraction. I've always considered myself as straight because I've only liked men and not women, but I've never ruled out the possibility of being with a woman because it's not something that I've experienced and outrightly said I didn't like.a

Don't worry, I know the difference between a supermodel and an ugly if that's what you're saying.

Well ultimately you are the master of your own desire. If you find yourself in a situation where you want to be in a relationship wit another woman for all the right reasons then have it by all means.

Personally I would have thought you would already know by now in some capacity whether you are sexually attracted to women or not or whether you would just be smitten by them but I'm not you. So long as you are true to yourself and you don't try to force something that you aren't that's all that matters.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Kyle

But would you be interested in that girl in a sexual way or by the fact that you are possibly temporarily allured to her charm/personality or the way she carries herself?

You mentioned to me the other day that you are around your early 20's so I would have hoped by now you would have noticed an attraction to females in general if you were by now but I don't know. Have you ever thought that you could be capable of being sexually attracted to a girl? What do you think of female sexual organs in general?

Yeah, I get what you're saying, I can think plenty of girls are attractive but the whole "mechanics" of sex with another girl kind of repulses me a bit