[caprimint]

Originally Posted by Ellen

But he has taken and used their things without permission.
The spitting incident was met with disgust from all sides but what took the edge off that was when he asked her and let her spit directly into his mouth.

Examples?

I find it funny that the only defence there is to Aubrey's spitgate is that 'Bear obviously didn't care so why does it matter?' Is that really seen as acceptable behaviour just because the recipient isn't bothered by it? However, even before that there were still many "he deserved it"s going around, which I think is pretty low.

[Ellen]

Originally Posted by caprimint

Examples?

I find it funny that the only defence there is to Aubrey's spitgate is that 'Bear obviously didn't care so why does it matter?' Is that really seen as acceptable behaviour just because the recipient isn't bothered by it? However, even before that there were still many "he deserved it"s going around, which I think is pretty low.

There is no defence to her spitting in his food and drink imo. All i read was that others were disgusted as well, i didnt see any 'he deserved it' but if you have then fair enough.
Whether we found it unacceptable Bear obviously didnt think the same way. I can be disgusted on my own behalf because to me spitting is disgusting.