[TomC]

Originally Posted by y.winter

The best advise I can give you is don't make it technical. This is not a chess game. Don't overthink it.
If you're just looking to be in a relationship and it's just "casting" the first guy that walks across the street and is qualified enough for the "position" - then don't expect it to be something more than this. Are you willing to start something like this?
If you're really into him, then continue and let the story unfold. You do your best. When you feel it doesn't go anywhere and you just drag yourself around it, stop it - you'll know when it comes to that point.

I'm not really sure what you mean by the middle bit. He is in my halls so I see him quite a lot, it's not just some randomer

And like are you saying the third paragraph in contrast to the second or like even if I'm not sure if I really like him can I still give it another go?

Thanks so much for the advice btw