[Ammi]

..I guess what I'm trying to say/trying to do is look at all of the 'isms' and 'ists' and 'judgements' individually because someone would be judged for an attitude when their attitude against a specific person seemed to show a defensiveness that wasn't necessary with that person.../whatever their life experiences of prejudices just wouldn't be considered if they were deemed to be rude for no reason..?...and females are (sometimes and often) judged in a different way to males and that's also a separate 'ist' where some thought process may come from...(not all obviously..)...