[user104658]

Since having kids, rarely (like every couple of months) and since my wife went back to uni, pretty much never . Most of her placements require a weekend day, and I have to work every Saturday, so she has to do every Sunday. Plus I work every Friday evening until 11.

Me and two of my friends have been trying to organise a drink for over 5 months and have yet to manage it . One of them has his first kid now too, so it's even harder to arrange things than it used to be.

I also suffer from the same "old married couple" syndrome as those above; even when I do arrange something, I have to psyche myself up for it because most of the time I'd rather just stay home, get snacks in and watch a film .