[the truth]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

Shhhhhhh it's harmless fun. Unless there actually is a literal woman. In which case it's probably a case of psychological abuse. But... shh anyway.

cheers for the mockery she wants to go 50 /50 on the deeds of the house we're buying, I dont. I rather buy it alone but she wants security as shes moving down from england and leaving her job etc

[user104658]

Originally Posted by the truth

cheers for the mockery she wants to go 50 /50 on the deeds of the house we're buying, I dont. I rather buy it alone but she wants security as shes moving down from england and leaving her job etc

Either buy it 50/50, pay for it 50/50 and trust each other to share it 50/50... or don't buy a house together. Live separately or rent until you do trust each other.

That's the answer you keep getting when you ask this question on here... from everyone. It's not going to change no matter how many times you ask...

[the truth]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

Either buy it 50/50, pay for it 50/50 and trust each other to share it 50/50... or don't buy a house together. Live separately or rent until you do trust each other.

That's the answer you keep getting when you ask this question on here... from everyone. It's not going to change no matter how many times you ask...

Thats not the only answer Ive had. what about 60/40 on the deeds have you known people who have done that

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by the truth

Thats not the only answer Ive had. what about 60/40 on the deeds have you known people who have done that

You seem to just want to get married and still selfishly keep everything purely for yourself. Therefore I'd advise not getting married at all. You're defeating the purpose.

Last thing you need is to be another divorce statistic.