[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by snail69

I thought you did. You just can't stop talking about Raph hey?! 😜

Anyway I don't think anyone was particularly harsh to Arthur with the exception of Kayleigh and maybe Sukhvinder in the first couple of days.

I think Lotan, and Joe for that matter, in particular were well within their rights to have it out with Arthur because he was being a blatant dick. They both tried to reconcile with him though when they didn't have to and also tried to convince him to make up with the rest of the house.

The part I didn't like was when they were messing with his stuff. That's not acceptable for me. Doesn't that class as bullying? Or at least ganging up on someone.

[snail69]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

The part I didn't like was when they were messing with his stuff. That's not acceptable for me. Doesn't that class as bullying? Or at least ganging up on someone.

Not really and it was Tom that instigated that anyway.

People need to stop with throwing the word "bully" around. When you spent a good portion of your childhood being bullied you know what bullying is and it's actually quite disrespectful to those that have been bullied and had to suffer for long periods of time against bullies when people keep throwing that word around like that, like it means nothing.

You may not like someone or their actions but it doesn't always make them a bully.

I hid my mates passport once when we were about to leave our hotel and head for the airport at the end of a holiday. Does that make me a bully?!

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by snail69

Not really and it was Tom that instigated that anyway.

People need to stop with throwing the word "bully" around. When you spent a good portion of your childhood being bullied you know what bullying is and it's actually quite disrespectful to those that have been bullied and had to suffer for long periods of time against bullies when people keep throwing that word around like that, like it means nothing.

You may not like someone or their actions but it doesn't always make them a bully.

I hid my mates passport once when we were about to leave our hotel and head for the airport at the end of a holiday. Does that make me a bully?!

Tom is definitely a bully and so is Kayleigh. The others were enabling him so not much better really.

[snail69]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

Tom is definitely a bully and so is Kayleigh. The others were enabling him so not much better really.

Kayleigh said some disgusting things and Tom is just a twit however I wouldn't class either as bullies. Arthur has been pretty vocal since he left but has he used that word(I genuinely don't know as I don't have Twitter)?

I've been bullied a lot as a young kid. For the colour of my skin so I have a very dim view on bullying by the way and I will not stand for it at all. That **** stays with you forever and I just wish people would stop throwing that word around like it means nothing because then the ones who are really suffering get ignored.

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[JTM45]

Originally Posted by snail69

I hid my mates passport once when we were about to leave our hotel and head for the airport at the end of a holiday. Does that make me a bully?!

Nope, just an asshole...............who's obsessed with his poxy phone.

[snail69]

Originally Posted by JTM45

Nope, just an asshole...............who's obsessed with his poxy phone.

Oh don't that thing ****s me off. On my old phone I could permanently remove that signature but on this one I have to do it everytime and I usually forget.

Oh and yes I'm100% an arse hole. No doubt about it.