[Brillopad]

Originally Posted by Amy Jade

On season is always messy I know but the ammount of trolling and baiting going on this year is genuinely off putting.

I've prefered twitter but a lot of posters here are amazing and make me laugh but honesty what is happening?

I've never used twitter but the general consensus of opinion seems to be that it is a lot worse - one of the worst - so find your post a little odd tbh.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Brillopad

I've never used twitter but the general consensus of opinion seems to be that it is a lot worse - one of the worst - so find your post a little odd tbh.

Hey brillo,nice to see you in here

[Brillopad]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

Hey brillo,nice to see you in here

Thanks Kaz. I do come in now and again when Something catches my attention.

I forget it's here sometimes. SD has a way of keeping your attention.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Brillopad

Thanks Kaz. I do come in now and again when Something catches my attention.

I forget it's here sometimes. SD has a way of keeping your attention.

I know,pretty hostile in there at times,nice to have some light relief ,well ,sometimes

[Josy]

Originally Posted by Black Dagger

So we just have 7 pages over people whining at being called cat ladies while we have trolls getting away with murder all this series. Good to know.

Actually this has been an interesting much needed discussion apart from the odd pointless baiting post.

If you think someone is trolling then report it and if it needs dealt with it will be.

And honestly anyone claiming they posted the cat ladies thing not knowing it was an insult is a liar.

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by Josy

Actually this has been an interesting much needed discussion apart from the odd pointless baiting post.

If you think someone is trolling then report it and if it needs dealt with it will be.

And honestly anyone claiming they posted the cat ladies thing not knowing it was an insult is a liar.

[Beso]

We need a cat lady fan thread.

[Smithy]

I dont post in the bb forum so this is the first I've heard of the cat lady thing

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Josy

Actually this has been an interesting much needed discussion apart from the odd pointless baiting post.

If you think someone is trolling then report it and if it needs dealt with it will be.

And honestly anyone claiming they posted the cat ladies thing not knowing it was an insult is a liar.

I feel the thread has opened up a good discussion,people have got stuff off their chests and maybe we have all been shown that sometimes we get too embroiled in a game show where the contestants neither know us or care about us (aside from Raph) all in all,I have enjoyed this thread.

[Nancy.]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

This thread isn't just about people slyly being attacked using "cat ladies" its also about the double standards on here and the fact some people get away with what others get a ban for, and its time it was all brought into the open and thrashed out ,then stopped, there should be no rule for one and one for another, ALL members should be treat equally

[Nancy.]

Originally Posted by Josy

Actually this has been an interesting much needed discussion apart from the odd pointless baiting post.

If you think someone is trolling then report it and if it needs dealt with it will be.

And honestly anyone claiming they posted the cat ladies thing not knowing it was an insult is a liar.

Exactly! You only have to check the links I posted to see it was used as a means to insult. It's all there in b/w.

[Greg!]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

On the appearance thing...just came across this thread from a while back that was probably one of the worst for appearance based insults.

http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/foru...d.php?t=277229

But because its directed at a male its fine

A lot who are complaining about appearance insults this year actually posted in that thread..and joined in with the taunting about 'fat and virgin'

Looking back on it now I can't believe we didn't ban people for their attitudes in there actually. I often get shocked at just how horrible members can be when I look at old threads.

Edit. Raph in that thread

Spoiler:

Haven't read through the whole thing and I'm not to trying to justify it in any way but Jack actually was/is very obese, and people were discussing that as a possible reason why he was voted to win some vote (can't remember what). It's slightly different from people calling female housemates (who aren't even overweight) "fat sluts" etc because they don't like them. But I admit some of the posts are horrible and not acceptable.

Originally Posted by Nancy.

Are you joking?

Posted by LukeB:
http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/foru...18&postcount=6

Posted by LukeB:
http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/foru...&postcount=245

Posted by Greg!:
http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/foru...3&postcount=60

Posted by Greg!:
http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/foru...4&postcount=26

Posted by Greg!:
http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/foru...&postcount=119

Posted by Amy Jade:
http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/foru...3&postcount=15

Posted by BBUKAUSFAN:
http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/foru...93&postcount=8

Posted by: Hayden:
http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/foru...2&postcount=72

Posted by Epic.:
http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/foru...99&postcount=4

Posted by Cal.
http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/foru...7&postcount=21

Posted by Germyle:
http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/foru...5&postcount=12

Posted by EspeonBB:
http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/foru...&postcount=210

Posted by Jordan.:
http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/foru...&postcount=580

Posted by Jason.:
http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/foru...&postcount=142

and that's just for starters....there's plenty more where those came from...
http://www.thisisbigbrother.com/foru...10990109&pp=25

An ICONIC compilation!
Honestly if you're offended by any of those posts over some of the vitriol posted about female housemates then you have your priorities all wrong.

[Nancy.]

Originally Posted by Greg!

I've NEVER seen anyone call another member a cat lady.

That's because you've been far to busy calling others Cat Ladies to notice.

[Ross.]

Originally Posted by Hayden

From now on Facebook Hags will be the go-to term

[Greg!]

Originally Posted by Nancy.

That's because you've been far to busy calling others Cat Ladies to notice.

None of your examples showed anyone calling another MEMBER a cat lady so try again. I can't believe I'm even having this conversation, it's ridiculous.

[Ashley.]

Originally Posted by y.winter

The baiting against cats should stop.

Originally Posted by Ninastar

Let the cats live!!

[caprimint]

Originally Posted by Greg!

None of your examples showed anyone calling another MEMBER a cat lady so try again. I can't believe I'm even having this conversation, it's ridiculous.

Because people know if they do that then they get banned as it's an insult, it's not that hard to work out That's what I meant by people doing it slyly thinking that they can get away with it by directing it at fb when it becomes an issue.

[Nancy.]

Originally Posted by Greg!

None of your examples showed anyone calling another MEMBER a cat lady so try again. I can't believe I'm even having this conversation, it's ridiculous.

I've never read so much sh!t in all my life. What do you think I am? I was called a cat lady myself on Thursday and the person who said it isn't to far away either. It was removed for obvious reasons but a moderator will be able to clarify this.

[Greg!]

Originally Posted by caprimint

Because people know if they do that then they get banned as it's an insult, it's not that hard to work out That's what I meant by people doing it slyly thinking that they can get away with it by directing it at fb when it becomes an issue.

People direct it at Facebook because that's what it means. Not everything is a bloody conspiracy or some sort of coded message towards other people on here.

[Samm]

meow

[T*]

We're allowed to dig up old posts? Good to know heh

[LukeB]

Originally Posted by Greg!

None of your examples showed anyone calling another MEMBER a cat lady so try again. I can't believe I'm even having this conversation, it's ridiculous.

Pretty sure people mean casuals (non-forum members etc) but it's only an issue to take the attention away from their slut shaming and appearance attacks which is a lot worse than the whole cat lady thing.

[Greg!]

Originally Posted by Nancy.

I've never read so much sh!t in al my life. What do you think I am? I was called a cat lady myself on Thursday and the person who said it isn't to far away either. A moderator will be able to clarify this for obvious reasons.

Oh no I'm so sorry to hear that! Poor you.

Sounds like an isolated incident to me mind you, not a widespread cat lady conspiracy like some are making out.

[Greg!]

Originally Posted by LukeB

Pretty sure people mean casuals (non-forum members etc) but it's only an issue to take the attention away from their slut shaming and appearance attacks which is a lot worse than the whole cat lady thing.

[TaylorCallum]

Mess what is happening in here?

I actually find this forum pretty mild compared to other sites. I agree people shouldn't be personally attacking each other but I've not actually seen anything bad. I think a little bit of trolling can liven things up now and again.