[Amy Jade]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

And that is recent if you have lost a parent so young

Two years is a long time, in my mind 'recent' is 6 months max

Although he is perfectly entitled to be upset of course I was just putting you right

[Christmas Dynasnow]

Originally Posted by Amy Jade

Two years is a long time, in my mind 'recent' is 6 months max

Although he is perfectly entitled to be upset of course I was just putting you right

if he died in December 2016 is barely been a year

[Amy Jade]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

if he died in December 2016 is barely been a year

He died in February 2016.

[bots]

Originally Posted by Amy Jade

He died in February 2016.

it really doesn't matter when he died, thats not how grief works

[Candy Annie Cane]

Originally Posted by bitontheslide

it really doesn't matter when he died, thats not how grief works

Agreed.. . When I lost my mum after the initial grief I rarely cried for 18 months. Its now been over 3 years but recently a lady came into my office wearing the same perfume as my mum wore and it devastated me, I was fine before and after but for that moment my grief was as raw as if it had been yesterday.

[Jase.]

Originally Posted by AnnieK

Agreed.. . When I lost my mum after the initial grief I rarely cried for 18 months. Its now been over 3 years but recently a lady came into my office wearing the same perfume as my mum wore and it devastated me, I was fine before and after but for that moment my grief was as raw as if it had been yesterday.

bless you

[Amy Jade]

Originally Posted by bitontheslide

it really doesn't matter when he died, thats not how grief works

Did I say otherwise?