Sure. Very little really matters, especially not words! I never understood why people care so much about what other people can say, why give them the power to rattle your cage?
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If you answered yes, what would be your advice to others struggling with this issue and how did you resolve it?
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Just find some perspective. If someone says something mean, it's either probably in response to some offense you might have given without realising, or they're just a crappy person whose opinions are all bitter anyway. Either way, in about seven-ten hours you'll be comfy in bed anyway, words won't change that.
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What is a give-away to you that someone else does not have a thick skin?
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Apart from obvious stuff, like taking offense at every little thing? Probably being constantly bitchy with no need, it's probably a defense mechanism.