[Twosugars]

Went to a Germaine Greer lecture years ago. She was promoting her book "about a boy", it was about art celebrating the beauty of young male body.
Her point was that women should reclaim the appreciation of fit males from gay men.
She also touched on trans issues, needless to say, she was very critical.
Had a word with her afterwards, her hostility or maybe suspicion of gays and trans was clear.
It is what it is. I can understand why women can feel suspicious and uneasy. After all, men have dominated their gender for, like, ever and things like drag queens, trans etc can be seen as invading their only safe space, their womanhood. And it doesn't matter that some of us may think trans progress is not a threat to womanhood.
If women, some or majority, feel this way, it has to be accepted and addressed. The bottome line is we can't have sexual progress at the real or perceived expense of women.
Both genders, but women in particular, need to be okay with whatever is done is that area. Imho.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Twosugars

Went to a Germaine Greer lecture years ago. She was promoting her book "about a boy", it was about art celebrating the beauty of young male body.
Her point was that women should reclaim the appreciation of fit males from gay men.
She also touched on trans issues, needless to say, she was very critical.
Had a word with her afterwards, her hostility or maybe suspicion of gays and trans was clear.
It is what it is. I can understand why women can feel suspicious and uneasy. After all, men have dominated their gender for, like, ever and things like drag queens, trans etc can be seen as invading their only safe space, their womanhood. And it doesn't matter that some of us may think trans progress is not a threat to womanhood.
If women, some or majority, feel this way, it has to be accepted and addressed. The bottome line is we can't have sexual progress at the real or perceived expense of women.
Both genders, but women in particular, need to be okay with whatever is done is that area. Imho.

There also can't be progress with women stubbornly refusing progress despite even the times they don't understand it or refuse to understand it, and shouting down any male who dares to speak.

Originally Posted by Twosugars

Her point was that women should reclaim the appreciation of fit males from gay men.

She always was an irrational person.

[Twosugars]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

There also can't be progress with women stubbornly refusing progress despite even the times they don't understand it or refuse to understand it, and shouting down any male who dares to speak.

Still, a common ground has to be found.
I would change the term cis if it's not accepted. And forget about self-identification and only take into account gender-reassigment surgery.

She always was an irrational person.

lol, she is "hardline", no question.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Twosugars

Still, a common ground has to be found.
I would change the term cis if it's not accepted. And forget about self-identification and only take into account gender-reassigment surgery.

I don't think changing the word would help. People are taking issue with having any word full stop. For reasons that still haven't been explained.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

I don't think changing the word would help. People are taking issue with having any word full stop. For reasons that still haven't been explained.

I did explain the reason i personally didn't like it.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

I did explain the reason i personally didn't like it.

Then I appear to have missed your post.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

Then I appear to have missed your post.

Here you go -

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Yeah I think that's why I don't like the term because anytime I've seen it (other than when we've talked in this forum) it's been used in an insulting and derogatory manner and also everytime I've seen it used in this way it's been used towards women which is why it' seems to me ore of womens issue rather than mens

[Cherie]

Coming back to the new legislation about self identifying, exactly how can this work if I can the day after the law is passed put on a mans suit and tie walk into some longstanding all men's club and they have to accept me? as it stands at the moment (and I didn't know this until this morning) under the equality any man dressed in female clothes can access women's changing rooms and toilets, I really don't think this has been thought through properly at all.

[Vicky.]

I know I said I would not post in here again, but I came across this article that I think fits really well here, especially with how the conversation has progressed.

https://fairplayforwomen.com/misogyny_hate_silencing/

Especially

There is clear evidence that women who ask questions or voice their concerns are being specifically targeted to silence them. Their motives and views are unfairly denounced as transphobic and inspired by hate. This impacts these women directly but also induces a climate of fear and shame to prevent other women speaking or learning more about the issues that impact them also. It also means the few women’s voices that do get heard are dismissed or mistrusted. The demonisation and marginalisation of a group’s role in society is a well known tactic. It is exploited by oppressors and should not be tolerated in a democratic society where the principle of free speech is upheld and valued. A few well known examples include Hitler’s demonisation of the Jews, the racist denigration of immigrants, Liverpool fans at Hillsborough.

No platforming of women from speaking at university events is common-place ranging from well known radical feminists such as Julie Bindel and Germaine Greer to the Women’s hour presenter Jeni Murray. This is now being extended to grass-root women’s campaign groups and many other ordinary women who wish to speak about the impact of transgender laws on women. This is happening both in the UK and globally.

And for my point earlier, about supposed 'male lesbians'

7.3 Lesbian women are being silenced and sexuality is being redefined

Lesbian women are a particularly vulnerable group since they are targets of both homophobic and misogynistic hate crime. The concept that gender identity trumps biological sex as a marker of whether someone is man / male or woman / female redefines our existing concepts of two protected characteristics in the Equality Act; namely sex and sexual orientation. If a heterosexual male (sexually attracted to females) identifies as a women (sexually attracted to females) their sexual orientation is redefined as now being homosexual. As such we now have male-born lesbians with penis and testicles present in the dating pool for lesbian women. Lesbian women who state a preference for female-born lesbians are condemned as transphobic for doing so. Transgender theory challenges the whole concept of same-sex attraction and is considered by some as homophobic. Indeed, there are some countries (Iran) where homosexuality is punishable by death yet have a policy of state-sponsored transitioning to the opposite gender. This effectively converts a gay person’s orientation to heterosexual and is clearly used there as an method of gay conversion. This highlights the inherent conflict between the theoretical underpinning of gender identity (based on gender) and sexuality (based on sex).

This example shows the banning of a lesbian women who is describing her sexuality as only attracted to other natal females. She was removed for transphobia and trans-misogyny. This is commonly referred to as the ‘cotton ceiling’ (the cotton referring to the cotton of a lesbian women’s underwear through which male-born lesbian may expect access). Many more examples of lesbian women being denounced for their sexual preference can be found here.

NOW I will no longer post in here. But there is a very real problem right now, and burying heads in the sand about it, or even actively joining in with the silencing of women, is anything but progressive. Its regressive.

[Brillopad]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

I know I said I would not post in here again, but I came across this article that I think fits really well here, especially with how the conversation has progressed.

https://fairplayforwomen.com/misogyny_hate_silencing/

Especially





And for my point earlier, about supposed 'male lesbians'



NOW I will no longer post. But there is a very real problem right now, and burying heads in the sand about it, or even actively joining in with the silencing of women, is anything but progressive. Its regressive.

There are a lot who support you on this Vicki. Don't let them drive you away from SD!

[Twosugars]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

I know I said I would not post in here again, but I came across this article that I think fits really well here, especially with how the conversation has progressed.

https://fairplayforwomen.com/misogyny_hate_silencing/

Especially





And for my point earlier, about supposed 'male lesbians'



NOW I will no longer post in here. But there is a very real problem right now, and burying heads in the sand about it, or even actively joining in with the silencing of women, is anything but progressive. Its regressive.

That is beyond bad, I had no idea as I don't follow the topic properly.

Don't leave the convo, Vicky.