[Josy]

Originally Posted by Shaun

It would pretty obviously not just be "one night only" and the grudges it builds would last a lot longer.

I was just coming to post this tbh.

So obvious from the past that the drama and arguments would spill into other threads and be dragged out for eternity.

I'm confused really why people have such strong sometimes scarily hostile feelings towards other on here (this isnt aimed at you withano btw I know thats not the reason for this thread) obviously at times in the past there has been justified reason to have bad feeling towards other members due to the many things that have happened on here over the years but thats not what im referring to, im referring to members that seem to have a hatred for each other due to differing opinions, liking different bb hms, even different singers and stuff like that, instead of getting angry or want to hurt them with words why not just take some time out, log off and chill then realise that disagreements with others on TiBB does not impact your life in any way, I certainly wouldnt get myself so worked up about a differing opinion that my first thought would be 'I want to go into an unmoderated free for all thread and rip them to shreds with insults' like I say I just dont get it, I dont get all the 'lets pretend to overly insult each other in every single forum post either yes one or two posts like that can be funny as an in joke but reading it all over the place daily is just a chore IMO anyway I find all the negativity and hate filled fueds pointless, lifes too short for all that crap.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Josy

I was just coming to post this tbh.

So obvious from the past that the drama and arguments would spill into other threads and be dragged out for eternity.

I'm confused really why people have such strong sometimes scarily hostile feelings towards other on here (this isnt aimed at you withano btw I know thats not the reason for this thread) obviously at times in the past there has been justified reason to have bad feeling towards other members due to the many things that have happened on here over the years but thats not what im referring to, im referring to members that seem to have a hatred for each other due to differing opinions, liking different bb hms, even different singers and stuff like that, instead of getting angry or want to hurt them with words why not just take some time out, log off and chill then realise that disagreements with others on TiBB does not impact your life in any way, I certainly wouldnt get myself so worked up about a differing opinion that my first thought would be 'I want to go into an unmoderated free for all thread and rip them to shreds with insults' like I say I just dont get it, I dont get all the 'lets pretend to overly insult each other in every single forum post either yes one or two posts like that can be funny as an in joke but reading it all over the place daily is just a chore IMO anyway I find all the negativity and hate filled fueds pointless, lifes too short for all that crap.

100% post,I am quite aware already of the people who don't like me as I am sure they are vice versa,I see no reason for a thread to slag others off and tell someone you don't like them,I really don't mind differing opinions it's good for a forum,but some of the reactions and things said if you don't like a certain person or singer etc,it's pretty silly.You're not going to gel with everyone.

[smudgie]

Originally Posted by Josy

I was just coming to post this tbh.

So obvious from the past that the drama and arguments would spill into other threads and be dragged out for eternity.

I'm confused really why people have such strong sometimes scarily hostile feelings towards other on here (this isnt aimed at you withano btw I know thats not the reason for this thread) obviously at times in the past there has been justified reason to have bad feeling towards other members due to the many things that have happened on here over the years but thats not what im referring to, im referring to members that seem to have a hatred for each other due to differing opinions, liking different bb hms, even different singers and stuff like that, instead of getting angry or want to hurt them with words why not just take some time out, log off and chill then realise that disagreements with others on TiBB does not impact your life in any way, I certainly wouldnt get myself so worked up about a differing opinion that my first thought would be 'I want to go into an unmoderated free for all thread and rip them to shreds with insults' like I say I just dont get it, I dont get all the 'lets pretend to overly insult each other in every single forum post either yes one or two posts like that can be funny as an in joke but reading it all over the place daily is just a chore IMO anyway I find all the negativity and hate filled fueds pointless, lifes too short for all that crap.

Totally agree.
I just can’t understand why people take difference of opinions as a personal affront.