[Cal.]

If you wanna get up next to me, you don’t have to chase me?

[Amy Jade]

I honestly feel bad for Dezzy reading this thread today.

[Candy Annie Cane]

I try to be an impartial on this forum as possible, mainly because at the end of the day...its a Big Brother Forum and I have enough **** in my real life without having to deal with beef on here. However, from the last couple of days my observations are:

1 - There is a definite pack mentality from all sides. The other day in the Anti-Semitic thread when it kicked off, it was reported in the chat threads as kicking off and then a mass influx of people came into the thread which inflamed it further leading to the bans. Nothing wrong with that in my opinion, in real life people stick up for their friends but the problem comes when it is obviously happening and then people only see it from the other side.

2. People take a real bashing on here - just recently Brillo has had numerous character assassinations and now Dezzy is getting it. A lot of the people who are here supporting Dezzy saying it shouldn't be happening (and I agree it shouldn't on a public forum) are people who either took part or watch in amusement at the Brillo bashing.

I don't know what people get out of it - borne from frustration maybe but there needs to be a line drawn as the toxicity is getting worse on here and it used to be such a great forum.

[Josy]

Originally Posted by AnnieK

I try to be an impartial on this forum as possible, mainly because at the end of the day...its a Big Brother Forum and I have enough **** in my real life without having to deal with beef on here. However, from the last couple of days my observations are:

1 - There is a definite pack mentality from all sides. The other day in the Anti-Semitic thread when it kicked off, it was reported in the chat threads as kicking off and then a mass influx of people came into the thread which inflamed it further leading to the bans. Nothing wrong with that in my opinion, in real life people stick up for their friends but the problem comes when it is obviously happening and then people only see it from the other side.

2. People take a real bashing on here - just recently Brillo has had numerous character assassinations and now Dezzy is getting it. A lot of the people who are here supporting Dezzy saying it shouldn't be happening (and I agree it shouldn't on a public forum) are people who either took part or watch in amusement at the Brillo bashing.

I don't know what people get out of it - borne from frustration maybe but there needs to be a line drawn as the toxicity is getting worse on here and it used to be such a great forum.

Couldnt agree more

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by AnnieK

I try to be an impartial on this forum as possible, mainly because at the end of the day...its a Big Brother Forum and I have enough **** in my real life without having to deal with beef on here. However, from the last couple of days my observations are:

1 - There is a definite pack mentality from all sides. The other day in the Anti-Semitic thread when it kicked off, it was reported in the chat threads as kicking off and then a mass influx of people came into the thread which inflamed it further leading to the bans. Nothing wrong with that in my opinion, in real life people stick up for their friends but the problem comes when it is obviously happening and then people only see it from the other side.

2. People take a real bashing on here - just recently Brillo has had numerous character assassinations and now Dezzy is getting it. A lot of the people who are here supporting Dezzy saying it shouldn't be happening (and I agree it shouldn't on a public forum) are people who either took part or watch in amusement at the Brillo bashing.

I don't know what people get out of it - borne from frustration maybe but there needs to be a line drawn as the toxicity is getting worse on here and it used to be such a great forum.

Totally agree with this ^^ the way Brillo is abused on here ( Livia too ) is disgusting and its always the same people who now are crying into their coffee because their friend is getting spoken about for not doing his job in the manner it should be done ,Good old members have been driven off this forum because of the actions of a few,and if this place is going to attract nice people who feel free to chat without getting abused something has to change, and it starts at the top

[Tinsel Toes]

[QUOTE=chuff me dizzy;9945068]Totally agree with this ^^ the way Brillo is abused on here ( Livia too ) is disgusting and its always the same people who now are crying into their coffee because their friend is getting spoken about for not doing his job in the manner it should be done ,Good old members have been driven off this forum because of the actions of a few,and if this place is going to attract nice people who feel free to chat without getting abused something has to change, and it starts at the top[/QUOTE

[Lostie!]

Originally Posted by AnnieK

I try to be an impartial on this forum as possible, mainly because at the end of the day...its a Big Brother Forum and I have enough **** in my real life without having to deal with beef on here. However, from the last couple of days my observations are:

1 - There is a definite pack mentality from all sides. The other day in the Anti-Semitic thread when it kicked off, it was reported in the chat threads as kicking off and then a mass influx of people came into the thread which inflamed it further leading to the bans. Nothing wrong with that in my opinion, in real life people stick up for their friends but the problem comes when it is obviously happening and then people only see it from the other side.

2. People take a real bashing on here - just recently Brillo has had numerous character assassinations and now Dezzy is getting it. A lot of the people who are here supporting Dezzy saying it shouldn't be happening (and I agree it shouldn't on a public forum) are people who either took part or watch in amusement at the Brillo bashing.

I don't know what people get out of it - borne from frustration maybe but there needs to be a line drawn as the toxicity is getting worse on here and it used to be such a great forum.

[Cherry Christmas]

Originally Posted by AnnieK

I try to be an impartial on this forum as possible, mainly because at the end of the day...its a Big Brother Forum and I have enough **** in my real life without having to deal with beef on here. However, from the last couple of days my observations are:

1 - There is a definite pack mentality from all sides. The other day in the Anti-Semitic thread when it kicked off, it was reported in the chat threads as kicking off and then a mass influx of people came into the thread which inflamed it further leading to the bans. Nothing wrong with that in my opinion, in real life people stick up for their friends but the problem comes when it is obviously happening and then people only see it from the other side.

2. People take a real bashing on here - just recently Brillo has had numerous character assassinations and now Dezzy is getting it. A lot of the people who are here supporting Dezzy saying it shouldn't be happening (and I agree it shouldn't on a public forum) are people who either took part or watch in amusement at the Brillo bashing.

I don't know what people get out of it - borne from frustration maybe but there needs to be a line drawn as the toxicity is getting worse on here and it used to be such a great forum.

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by AnnieK

I try to be an impartial on this forum as possible, mainly because at the end of the day...its a Big Brother Forum and I have enough **** in my real life without having to deal with beef on here. However, from the last couple of days my observations are:

1 - There is a definite pack mentality from all sides. The other day in the Anti-Semitic thread when it kicked off, it was reported in the chat threads as kicking off and then a mass influx of people came into the thread which inflamed it further leading to the bans. Nothing wrong with that in my opinion, in real life people stick up for their friends but the problem comes when it is obviously happening and then people only see it from the other side.

2. People take a real bashing on here - just recently Brillo has had numerous character assassinations and now Dezzy is getting it. A lot of the people who are here supporting Dezzy saying it shouldn't be happening (and I agree it shouldn't on a public forum) are people who either took part or watch in amusement at the Brillo bashing.

I don't know what people get out of it - borne from frustration maybe but there needs to be a line drawn as the toxicity is getting worse on here and it used to be such a great forum.

Oh was that the issue? there was the usual tirade of 'oi you can't say that to my fren' without the slightest interest in the topic of debate... Thought as much.

[Josy]

Rob tbf here I think its the fact that you are posting along the lines of theres no problem here, its only certain members that are moaning etc when the fact is there is some very real problems on this forum right now.

Sorry if ive took youre comments the wrong way its quite difficult to keep track of everything atm but from the posts ive seen thats what I got from them.

[ChristmasNeeve]

Originally Posted by Josy

Rob tbf here I think its the fact that you are posting along the lines of theres no problem here, its only certain members that are moaning etc when the fact is there is some very real problems on this forum right now.

Sorry if ive took youre comments the wrong way its quite difficult to keep track of everything atm but from the posts ive seen thats what I got from them.

Yep agree with this, Annies post pretty much applies I think

[Ammi]

...following from Josy...it wasn’t meant to be ‘is there a problem or issues’ because there obviously is...perspectives of those might be different but they’re genuinely felt...it’s more is there a solution in changes that would be acceptable to most...staff included as it can’t be denied that to staff the forum atm is fairly thankless and worthless in task...

[Cal.]

But what are the problems? I’m not trying to cause drama I’d just like to know!

[Greg!]

Originally Posted by Cal.

But what are the problems? I’m not trying to cause drama I’d just like to know!

People got banned for breaking the rules and they canny take it!

[Cal.]

Originally Posted by Greg!

People got banned for breaking the rules and they canny take it!

They never should have went to Lidia’s gaff?

[Greg!]

Originally Posted by Cal.

They never should have went to Lidia’s gaff?

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by Greg!

People got banned for breaking the rules and they canny take it!

The fact that some ( mods) DONT get banned for breaking the rules they are supposed to uphold is the problem here

[Josy]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

The fact that some ( mods) DONT get banned for breaking the rules they are supposed to uphold is the problem here

Actually there is a lot more going on than problems members have with certain mods, members being completely blind to their own wrong doings whilst quick to point out others flaws is one of the main issues.

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by Josy

Actually there is a lot more going on than problems members have with certain mods, members being completely blind to their own wrong doings whilst quick to point out others flaws is one of the main issues.

One thing Im not and have never been is blind to my faults ,but Im not the subject here, if I do wrong I get infracted or banned, what I think should happen as Ive said countless time above and on Izzard thread is a fair deal for ALL ,with EVERYONE being equal ,thats not too much to ask for surely ?

[Greg!]

Dezzy is gorgeous leave him alone!

[Rob!]

Hey, I mean I've stated what my problems are earlier in the thread and I think and hope I took the time to do so in a measured, calm and considered way. Whether any of those problems are addressed in the future is a matter for you guys.
That isn't what is happening in here now some of the banned members are back. That to me speaks volumes.

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by Rob!

Hey, I mean I've stated what my problems are earlier in the thread and I think and hope I took the time to do so in a measured, calm and considered way. Whether any of those problems are addressed in the future is a matter for you guys.
That isn't what is happening in here now some of the banned members are back. That to me speaks volumes.

So you don't think the members giving a small ban for speaking out should have a voice ? You think we should put up and shut up ? THIS is why its all come to a head,because for a long time people HAVE put up and shut up and its caused bad feeling ...Better to have a couple of days bashing out the problem than letting it fester

[Rob!]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

So you don't think the members giving a small ban for speaking out should have a voice ? You think we should put up and shut up ? THIS is why its all come to a head,because for a long time people HAVE put up and shut up and its caused bad feeling ...Better to have a couple of days bashing out the problem than letting it fester

Yeah, but you've come back kicking and screaming because you've been given a ban. As stated earlier in the thread, you broke the rules, and for once you were punished. You can't be whinging about the mods that gave you that punishment when you're just as guilty of what you're complaining about.

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by Rob!

Yeah, but you've come back kicking and screaming because you've been given a ban. As stated earlier in the thread, you broke the rules, and for once you were punished. You can't be whinging about the mods that gave you that punishment when you're just as guilty of what you're complaining about.

Now please take a minute and find where Ive "come back kicking and screaming " about getting a ban.... I took the ban on the chin as adults do ,my complaint is about ONE mod, not all mods

[Rob!]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

Now please take a minute and find where Ive "come back kicking and screaming " about getting a ban.... I took the ban on the chin as adults do ,my complaint is about ONE mod, not all mods

Oh, so it's just coincidence that it happens to be the mod that gave you that ban?