[Crimson Dynamo]

In the case in point my pals wife has now had 6 weeks of "space" and this week is moving some effects (a sofa etc) into this new cottage. I think its bollocks tbh and I think she is at it?

[smudgie]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

In the case in point my pals wife has now had 6 weeks of "space" and this week is moving some effects (a sofa etc) into this new cottage. I think its bollocks tbh and I think she is at it?

Hmmm, now that sounds like too much space between them LT.

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by smudgie

Hmmm, now that sounds like too much space between them LT.

It does and im getting angrier by the minute at the ridiculous situation

[Jessica.]

Maybe your friend is more guilty than he lets on

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Jessica.

Maybe your friend is more guilty than he lets on

well i have known them both for 26 years and have been on lots of holidays with them and stayed in their house etc so i pretty much know the deal. So i dont think so.

[Jessica.]

Maybe he's into something freaky that he's not comfortable talking about with you

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Jessica.

Maybe he's into something freaky that he's not comfortable talking about with you

well if making model airplanes in his shed is considered freaky the world can just f right off

[Mokka]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

well if making model airplanes in his shed is considered freaky the world can just f right off

Maybe he should have spent less time making model airplanes

[Ammi]

...when people say they need space in that context, I often find that what they actually need is to talk/communicate and maybe that's what they haven't been doing enough of..?..just both doing their own thing and not giving themselves any quality time as a couple...it's sad, they may work it out but a lot of communication seems to be the thing that is needed, the 'grass may seem greener' for her atm but that could just be a reactionary/attention thing and that's what needs to be addressed...relationships/marriages etc need to be worked on, they don't just flourish and sustain on their own without that..just drifting along can very much be, not drifting in the same direction and then these things can sadly happen..anyways I don't think that whisky is the answer, I think communication is to find out if their future can be with each other or no..../sometimes people just fall out of love as well...

[Northern Monkey]

I say this every night when i wanna go play my Xbox

[Amy Jade]

Bet he asked to watch her have a poo. Deal breaker that.

[Jessica.]

Originally Posted by Amy Jade

Bet he asked to watch her have a poo. Deal breaker that.

She's Enid?

[arista]

Originally Posted by Jessica.

She's Enid?

A Hot Lady

[Kizzy]

I think it means something totally different for men and women, with women it means the relationship is over and for men they just need a bit of space and then they'll be fine.
Don't forget, we come from different planets

[Cherie]

I think it's a hedging your bets kind of thing, I need space, I'm going to try something else, if it doesn't work out I don't need space any more. I hope your friend is okay LT, that sounds a bit ****ty after 26 years together she should have told him the truth

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Cherie

I think it's a hedging your bets kind of thing, I need space, I'm going to try something else, if it doesn't work out I don't need space any more. I hope your friend is okay LT, that sounds a bit ****ty after 26 years together she should have told him the truth

Seems like it yeah in this case, that's a terrible way to treat someone

[Crimson Dynamo]

She said yesterday she is going to learn Latin Dancing

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

She said yesterday she is going to learn Latin Dancing

Classic mid life crisis hobby

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Cherie

Classic mid life crisis hobby

and she hit fifty earlier this year....

[Kyle]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

She said yesterday she is going to learn Latin Dancing

Oh we all know why this is.

ˇOoh Julio, usted tiene una gran polla!

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Kyle

Oh we all know why this is.

ˇOoh Julio, usted tiene una gran pollo!

Loose translation ...Julio you have a big chicken

[Mokka]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

She said yesterday she is going to learn Latin Dancing

He should offer to learn with her

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Mokka

He should offer to learn with her

But thats just it he does not want to, he hates the thought of it (as would I).

They dont really have too much in common tbh bizarrely. SHe is the type to go for a walk on a Sunday and want to talk about pensions and work and my pal would rather not do that.

[Mokka]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

But thats just it he does not want to, he hates the thought of it (as would I).

They dont really have too much in common tbh bizarrely. SHe is the type to go for a walk on a Sunday and want to talk about pensions and work and my pal would rather not do that.

Then they have a problem.

If couples aren't able to bend a little for each other in a relationship... then it's doomed. Some times you have to do what you don't want to make things work for the other.

My guess is, she wouldn't have told him about the dancing if she didn't deep down want him to be involved.

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Mokka

Then they have a problem.

If couples aren't able to bend a little for each other in a relationship... then it's doomed. Some times you have to do what you don't want to make things work for the other.

My guess is, she wouldn't have told him about the dancing if she didn't deep down want him to be involved.

Well moving out of the house and into a wee cottage that her boss "just happens to have" is also sending a sort of subliminal message would you not say?