[Nicky91]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

Nicky if this is true then its really horrendous .

it is true

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Nicky91

i got stomped on my head whenever i did throw a tantrum, and that made me cry a lot


not just slapped but a stomp from my mom or dad's fist, so now i know that i should behave, and count to 10 whenever i am tempted to throw a tantrum once again

lesson learned

[Matthew.]

Originally Posted by Nicky91

i got stomped on my head whenever i did throw a tantrum, and that made me cry a lot


not just slapped but a stomp from my mom or dad's fist, so now i know that i should behave, and count to 10 whenever i am tempted to throw a tantrum once again

i have to ask, you mean “stomped” as in slamming their foot onto your head? that’s absolutely horrific, surely that can cause head injury depending on how hard they did it, but the way you say stomp makes it sound pretty hard.

there is never an excuse for hitting your child. ever.

[Crimson Dynamo]

No one used fck around in a class with a teacher that could draw the belt well

that was for sure

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

No one used fck around in a class with a teacher that could draw the belt well

that was for sure

I had many a blackboard rubber thrown at me in school Not for anything bad ,as if my Mam and Dad found out we had not behaved we would get into more trouble when we got home, unlike parents today who blame the school. teachers ,anyone but the monster they have created

[Tom4784]

Resorting to violence as a form of punishment is a sign of a weak parent.

[Crimson Dynamo]

and he drew on my schoolbag

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

and he drew on my schoolbag

well a kid dealing with another kid bullying him school isn't a parent disciplining their kid

[Crimson Dynamo]

felt tip

[bots]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

felt tip

indelibly stamped on your memory

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

felt tip

Felt tip is a swine to get out

[Wizard.]

But try having your step-dad kick you in the balls as an 8-year-old because you told your mum that he brought her home flowers when it was meant to be a 'surprise'

[Beso]

Originally Posted by Riley.

But try having your step-dad kick you in the balls as an 8-year-old because you told your mum that he brought her home flowers when it was meant to be a 'surprise'

That is ****ing disgusting..what a bullying.....argh i need to count to 10

[kirklancaster]

Originally Posted by Riley.

But try having your step-dad kick you in the balls as an 8-year-old because you told your mum that he brought her home flowers when it was meant to be a 'surprise'

Are you serious, Riley? This actually happened to you?

[Wizard.]

oh and locking you outside butt naked as a form of humiliation

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Riley.

oh and locking you outside butt naked as a form of humiliation

whaaat?

[Wizard.]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

whaaat?

yeah in our street

[Denver]

Social services have destroyed this country

My brothers he is not allowed to do anything with her new born like she did with her other child.

Your not even allowed to feed them how you want

[Wizard.]

he has apologised since, but like whatever some people don't know how to treat children

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by Riley.

he has apologised since, but like whatever some people don't know how to treat children

You should never, ever humiliate a child, that stays with them forever

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

You should never, ever humiliate a child, that stays with them forever

You don't think a larger person hitting a little person is humiliating?

[Crimson Dynamo]

Speak roughly to your little boy,
And beat him when he sneezes:
He only does it to annoy,
Because he knows it teases.'

Lewis Carroll, Alice in Wonderland

[Kizzy]

Kids are annoying.... Have you seen secret lives of 4yr olds?
They act cute but among themselves they have sophisticated hierarchical structures and detailed conversations.
Don't fall for the cute act!
If you want your brat to do something make it a direct order, no compromises.

If my dad wanted me to turn the TV off I turned it off... I didn't want 'the look!!'
I knew when teatime was and I knew when bedtime was.
I think most kids respond well to routine, it's reassuring.
I wasn't smacked, and I didn't smack.

Ok.. I lied, but seriously I can count the times on my fingers, for both of them... And most of them were the boy, he was the most annoying.

[Denver]

Parents are scared to discipline their child because of fears the child will be taken away from them

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Adam.

Parents are scared to discipline their child because of fears the child will be taken away from them

You say that like hitting is the only possible way to discipline a child, it isn't.