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smudgie · 07-06-2017, 10:07 PM

Sounds more like young people enjoying themselves.

You can't cheat unless you make a commitment of some sort, not that I have any clue if they had or not.

Amy Jade · 07-06-2017, 10:09 PM

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Originally Posted by smudgie

Sounds more like young people enjoying themselves.

You can't cheat unless you make a commitment of some sort, not that I have any clue if they had or not.

I bet the three girls and the guy he cheated on had a great time! Nothing more fun than your boyfriend cheating on you.

reece(: · 07-06-2017, 10:09 PM

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Originally Posted by smudgie

Sounds more like young people enjoying themselves.

There's no enjoyment in a relationship with cheating

Ant. · 07-06-2017, 10:07 PM

I mean tbh I'd pay Raph the £100k if it meant he'd cheat on me

Withano · 07-06-2017, 10:10 PM

I dont know the answer to this question, but is cheating out of sexuality exploration as bad as cheating out of being slutty? I'm leaning towards no.

Denver · 07-06-2017, 10:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Withano

I dont know the answer to this question, but is cheating out of sexuality exploration as bad as cheating out of being slutty? I'm leaning towards no.

Doesnt explain why he cheated on his bf with a guy

Withano · 07-06-2017, 10:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Adam.

Doesnt explain why he cheated on his bf with a guy

True lol. At least he seems remorseful, I guess.

Jordan. · 07-06-2017, 10:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Withano

True lol. At least he seems remorseful, I guess.

He's feeling sorry for himself because he knows he will look bad to the hms & public. He should have been more careful what he was telling the producers to get a place in the house.

Drew. · 07-06-2017, 10:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Jordan.

He's feeling sorry for himself because he knows he will look bad to the hms & public. He should have been more careful what he was telling the producers to get a place in the house.

He was remorseful enough in the past without an audience

Rustic bauble · 07-06-2017, 10:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Jordan.

He's feeling sorry for himself because he knows he will look bad to the hms & public. He should have been more careful what he was telling the producers to get a place in the house.

I agree. He has obviously given this information to make good housemate material. He knows the show inside and out...don't tell me he didn't think this stuff would be exposed

Then crying about it purely out of concern on how it will make him look is pathetic.
TIBB member or not...I will judge him like any other housemate. He is not dislikeable by any means...I don't really care about what he has done. But just stand up and say you regret it instead of crying for the sympathy vote. The most telling thing is that he really only cares about the way it portrays HIM and how it may ruin his chances of progressing in his beloved programme.

ChristmasNeeve · 07-06-2017, 10:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Withano

I dont know the answer to this question, but is cheating out of sexuality exploration as bad as cheating out of being slutty? I'm leaning towards no.

I'm sure being cheated on feels the same regardless though. If you want to explore stay single

Amy Jade · 07-06-2017, 10:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Withano

I dont know the answer to this question, but is cheating out of sexuality exploration as bad as cheating out of being slutty? I'm leaning towards no.

It still hurts to be cheated on, he could have explored when he was single.

Withano · 07-06-2017, 10:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Amy Jade

It still hurts to be cheated on, he could have explored when he was single.

It wouldnt hurt as much though right? Like girls would rather be cheated on by a gay guy with a man, than with a straight guy and a girl?

ChristmasNeeve · 07-06-2017, 10:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Withano

It wouldnt hurt as much though right? Like girls would rather be cheated on by a gay guy with a man, than with a straight guy and a girl?

Um no

Withano · 07-06-2017, 10:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh.

Um no

Oh lol. I would have thought it would be less of a blow. I've not been on either side.

Marc · 07-06-2017, 10:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Withano

It wouldnt hurt as much though right? Like girls would rather be cheated on by a gay guy with a man, than with a straight guy and a girl?

Not sure, still hurts I guess

Amy Jade · 07-06-2017, 10:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Withano

It wouldnt hurt as much though right? Like girls would rather be cheated on by a gay guy with a man, than with a straight guy and a girl?

No. Being cheated on is horrific either way. I was a mess when I got cheated on, I blamed myself which in hindesight was so silly.

He must have very little humility if he can do that to a person 4 times.

Withano · 07-06-2017, 10:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Amy Jade

No. Being cheated on is horrific either way. I was a mess when I got cheated on, I blamed myself which in hindesight was so silly.

He must have very little humility if he can do that to a person 4 times.

Yeh, cant be an accident if you do it more than once really.

It just sounds like hes tried to surpress his sexuality perhaps? But inevitably caved. And that does sound slightly less douchey than other reasons for cheating imo.

It does make him a bit douchey, especially considering he cheated on a man with a man.... but not as douchey as the average serial cheat from my perspective.

Marsh. · 07-06-2017, 10:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Withano

I dont know the answer to this question, but is cheating out of sexuality exploration as bad as cheating out of being slutty? I'm leaning towards no.

Yeah I'm sure the wife of a cheating husband would prefer to know her husband was testing out his ass in some new experiences with men than banging a lass. Makes the world of difference.

Locke. · 07-06-2017, 10:14 PM

Hearing reports that Chanelle was the cheat and they edited it to make it look like Raph, can't believe they'd do this

ChristmasNeeve · 07-06-2017, 10:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Locke.

Hearing reports that Chanelle was the cheat and they edited it to make it look like Raph, can't believe they'd do this

Black Dagger · 07-06-2017, 10:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Locke.

Hearing reports that Chanelle was the cheat and they edited it to make it look like Raph, can't believe they'd do this

Excuse me I dont lie

Ant. · 07-06-2017, 10:14 PM

I think they were probably applauding him for being honest. He could've easily just said "oh my partner was cheating so I cheated on revenge" or some bull**** lie, and he could've just not included the fact he cheated on his boyfriend

He was honest and put himself out there and the whole nation/all BOTS audience + 2 people watched and know that he's cheated, and that may affect future relationships (maybe not romantic, since he doesn't 'believe in love', but regardless he was under the impression the nation's gonna define him as a cheater)