[Wizard.]

Originally Posted by Smithy

Why would it be someone from GRINDR marsh?

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Smithy

Why would it be someone from GRINDR marsh?

I wasn't talking about me!!!

As if I'm in a relationship!

[montblanc]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

I would say no, but then if it was pictures/videos of someone they'd met on grindr/tindr then it would be a little weird. Porn/nudes are all such a weird mix.

[Cal.]

My boyfriend wouldn’t be allowed.

[Amy Jade]

No it never botherd me. Never watched it with him though I'd be so uncomfortable!

[armand.kay]

No only time I would see something wrong with it is if they were watching some crazy kinky stuff that I would never try

[Wizard.]

Of course not god everyone does it in relationships

[hijaxers]

Originally Posted by Riley.

Of course not god everyone does it in relationships

You are incorrect there Riley sorry.

[Black Dagger]

Lol ofc not.

Obviously if you're sat next to them and they want to have a bounce and you're like "Nah hun. Want to see this twink get gangbanged instead" it'd be a bit weird. But the concept isn't immoral in my eyes.

[AnnieK]

Everyone has kinks....
Not cheating, only time if it compromises your actual sex life it would become an issue for me

[Smithy]

Who said yes I wanna laugh at you

[Ant.]

All I'm saying is, the people I know that watch porn are single, and those that don't are in loving relationships

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Ant.

All I'm saying is, the people I know that watch porn are single, and those that don't hve lied to me to make me think they are perfect

fixed

[Swan]

I wanking over this thread

[Maru]

Speaking of cheating. They have a robot brothel in Houston now. Our friends mentioned it, asking if it should be considered cheating... but it depends on how realistic the robots are. If they can learn your name, can interact with you emotionally... pretty sure that's cheating in my book, no matter however they put it. (well, especially how they put it, but you know...)

It wouldn't seem at first to be practical for to be the cause. Is a robot really going to replace a real human-being. Well.. the reality is, our chemistry is wired to respond to things that behave or mimic us in very emotional ways. If you can rebutt that connection, cool. I wouldn't go as far as to say that we should be scared a lover would run off with a robot, but I would think the emotional attachment to a fictional human-being would be very disruptive for a relationship in the very least. Especially if that person plays with it enough that they build a significant connection/persona around it. After all it would check all the boxes you tell it to, listens to all your problems and with some extra tech, it can even behave however you want as well...

There's already people who are attached to 3D-printed "robots". I watched an episode from a show about how people who were really into it online. I wish I could remember the name of it, because it was available online and was really good. There was a French lady in it who decided to marry one that didn't move. It was just something she made with a 3D printer iirc and parts. Some of them don't even do anything. They're just mannequins. But, they built them to be pretend.

Humans are very skilled social creatures, especially with regard to mimicry. That was so clear during that show. It's weird how she seemed to have developed robot-like features herself, while trying to make it seem "relatable" to the cameras. So from that perspective, I can understand and even empathize where some may decide in a relationship to discourage/prohibit just pornography. Maybe that does transition off-screen. Though I think with most people (not all!), it requires a bigger mental connection than just skin-to-skin to want to be with someone long-term, and pornography and robots aren't going to cut it... but those who are having issues, they may seek those "activities" as an outlet and maybe in some instances it bridges out to other behaviors...

Myself, I tend to think of porn like reading a book, but with mostly explicit scenes. We all technically watch porn if we have ever seen most Hollywood movies, in my view. And yeah, people do think tend to feel like they need to be like that in their own bedroom, so I wouldn't say it doesn't affect us either...

[Niamh.]

No

[JerseyWins]

1. No
2. Yes
3. Yes it's ok regardless

Far from unfaithful IMO. The only way it would be unfaithful to me is if the person had some kind of personal relationship with the pornstar I think... but even then ehhh it's only just bordering "cheating"

[user104658]

There is a SMALL amount of ethical porn where the people doing it are genuinely happy and simply very open and extrovert for their own properly considered reasons but we're talking like 1% of the porn you'll find online here. The massive rate of ex porn stars talking about how unhappy they were should be a huge indicator. And that's the recognisable ones / big names... I can only imagine how the ones who already look like they're trying not to cry whilst one guy gives them a prolapse and another cums up their nose for a one off payday feel about it afterwards.

And THAT only goes into porn actually made in the US / UK etc... A huge amount of porn online is Southern American, Eastern European, and East Asian. Are we really going to pretend that these people are having fun?

Meh. Don't get me wrong I used to watch plenty of porn when I was younger. One day I just sort of realised how horrendously depressing it actually is.

[Parmy]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

There is a SMALL amount of ethical porn where the people doing it are genuinely happy and simply very open and extrovert for their own properly considered reasons but we're talking like 1% of the porn you'll find online here. The massive rate of ex porn stars talking about how unhappy they were should be a huge indicator. And that's the recognisable ones / big names... I can only imagine how the ones who already look like they're trying not to cry whilst one guy gives them a prolapse and another cums up their nose for a one off payday feel about it afterwards.

And THAT only goes into porn actually made in the US / UK etc... A huge amount of porn online is Southern American, Eastern European, and East Asian. Are we really going to pretend that these people are having fun?

Meh. Don't get me wrong I used to watch plenty of porn when I was younger. One day I just sort of realised how horrendously depressing it actually is.

ts, staring down at his limp dick, cheese grater in hand.....

[user104658]

Originally Posted by parmnion

ts, staring down at his limp dick, cheese grater in hand.....

I have a wife Parmy, we don't all need porn for sex .

To be fair though I also didn't say that I never have a good ol' wank, but I also have an imagination that's far more vivid than any porn and also doesn't harm anyone . Honestly Parm, you're old enough to remember the good old days! When all you needed was a box of tissues and the underwear section of the Index catalogue! I despair for the youth of today who can't get off without watching some poor desperate Russian teenager getting an anal perforation and a nasty STI.

But whatever works I guess.

[Twosugars]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

I have a wife Parmy, we don't all need porn for sex .

To be fair though I also didn't say that I never have a good ol' wank, but I also have an imagination that's far more vivid than any porn and also doesn't harm anyone . Honestly Parm, you're old enough to remember the good old days! When all you needed was a box of tissues and the underwear section of the Index catalogue! I despair for the youth of today who can't get off without watching some poor desperate Russian teenager getting an anal perforation and a nasty STI.

But whatever works I guess.

gonna answer you again bc the picture of porn you paint is ott
unless you are into some s/m or other brutalisation/humiliation scenarios I don't recognize your doom and gloom. Been watching porn (gay) for years and vaaaast majority of it is fun, especially amateur.

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by Twosugars

gonna answer you again bc the picture of porn you paint is ott
unless you are into some s/m or other brutalisation/humiliation scenarios I don't recognize your doom and gloom. Been watching porn (gay) for years and vaaaast majority of it is fun, especially amateur.

I think the problem is alot of these websites have the extreme stuff mingled in or weird title's for the shock factor , there's been youtube videos of people's reactions to some of these (obviously you don't see anything but you see their disgusted reaction). But i assume the average movies are full of models who are happy with what they're doing .

[user104658]

Originally Posted by Twosugars

gonna answer you again bc the picture of porn you paint is ott
unless you are into some s/m or other brutalisation/humiliation scenarios I don't recognize your doom and gloom. Been watching porn (gay) for years and vaaaast majority of it is fun, especially amateur.

Like I said 2S I don't know if the gay porn scene is different but the majority of straight amateur porn on sites like pornhub, etc, the females are quite blatantly exploited and don't look like they're having a very good time. Frankly, the BULK of straight amateur porn is humiliation / degradation scenarios... At least to the extent where you'd have to sift through a tonne of it to find the "good videos".

Then you have the more polished stuff where everyone seems to be enjoying it and having a good time. But then, most ex porn stars who seemed to be having a great time in their videos, when they later quit or retire, report that they were actually pretty miserable and turned to it for the money as they felt they had no choice.

Again like I said I'm not judging anyone for watching or enjoying it, each to their own, I just find it near impossible to get my rocks off watching it and not just then feel totally empty inside.

[Parmy]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

I have a wife Parmy, we don't all need porn for sex .

To be fair though I also didn't say that I never have a good ol' wank, but I also have an imagination that's far more vivid than any porn and also doesn't harm anyone . Honestly Parm, you're old enough to remember the good old days! When all you needed was a box of tissues and the underwear section of the Index catalogue! I despair for the youth of today who can't get off without watching some poor desperate Russian teenager getting an anal perforation and a nasty STI.

But whatever works I guess.

The shower section for the naked bums...or carol vorderman if it was a quickie.

[RileyH]

Screaming @ the amount of votes I didn't think there were even 30 people left on the forum