[Niamh.]

I heard this on a radio show earlier and it's a tough one, what would you do?

So you work with couple who met in the job, are married and have a kid together. You get on well with them both. It's the work Christmas party and they can't get a baby sitter so the husband goes to the party and the wife stays home with the kid. At the Christmas party you see the husband in the corner kissing some girl. What do you do? Tell the wife? Say something to the husband? or pretend you saw nothing? Or something else?

*for arguments sake, we'll say you know them pretty well and are very friendly with them both (but not best buddies like your out of work friends)

[Cherie]

I would mind my own business, people behaving out of character at Christmas parties is not unheard of, he might be full of remorse afterwards and she might not take kindly to any intervention, plus if I don't know them well, they might have an open relationship, I still have to work with them even after they have possibly made up so it might cause friction at work that I could do without so I'm keeping well out of it

[Marsh.]

I'd send her an anonymous letter and a photograph of the dirty bugger.

[Crimson Dynamo]

say nowt, other peoples lives are none of your business

[caprimint]

Originally Posted by Isaiah 7:14

say nowt, other peoples lives are none of your business

This, usually when you interfere it only looks bad on you anyway

[Smithy]

If you’re friends with the man you’d ask him what he was doing, if you’re friends with the woman, tell her

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Dancing in Blizzards

If you’re friends with the man you’d ask him what he was doing, if you’re friends with the woman, tell her

If you are pals with the man you would more likely say "did you shag her?" and then perch for the details

[Nicky91]

Originally Posted by Isaiah 7:14

If you are pals with the man you would more likely say "did you shag her?" and then perch for the details

awkward if you'd really ask this

[Smithy]

Originally Posted by Isaiah 7:14

If you are pals with the man you would more likely say "did you shag her?" and then perch for the details

I’m not a trash human, so no, I wouldn’t ask that

[Denver]

Join in

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Dancing in Blizzards

I’m not a trash human, so no, I wouldn’t ask that

Its what men do. sorry if this is breaking news

[Nicky91]

Originally Posted by Isaiah 7:14

Its what men do. sorry if this is breaking news

LT exposed as a trash human

[Smithy]

Originally Posted by Isaiah 7:14

Its what men do. sorry if this is breaking news

Certainly what trash men do!

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Dancing in Blizzards

Certainly what trash men do!

you seem to have a good working knowledge so I will bow to your expertise of this type of man..

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Isaiah 7:14

If you are pals with the man you would more likely say "did you shag her?" and then perch for the details

I'd ask "Did you shag her?" and then if the answer was yes I'd re-evaluate our friendship status.

[Crimson Dynamo]

there isnt a man alive who would not think

"oh brilliant this will be top goss and scandal for tomorrow" and high-five themselves

espesh if she was a munter

[Marsh.]

LT one of the backward thinking who believe men can't help themselves and can't control their urges when it comes to sex?

Only scum make the choice to cheat on a partner.

If you want to shag about, stay single.

[Nicky91]

Originally Posted by Isaiah 7:14

there isnt a man alive who would not think

"oh brilliant this will be top goss and scandal for tomorrow" and high-five themselves

espesh if she was a munter

what's a munter

[Crimson Dynamo]

It reminds me of when I hired a wee lassie from Crieff and she was ever so posh and bright and i was well pleased with the hire. FF 3 weeks later to the Christmas party when she got hammered and called the MD of Capital radio a c unt very loudly and aggressively, I could even see Tony Blackburn wince.

I also recall a girl in my team (diff company) wanking off the Commercial Director at a Christmas party and he was married with kids and she was going out with a pal of mine.

All part of the magic of Christmas

[Nicky91]

Originally Posted by Isaiah 7:14

It reminds me of when I hired a wee lassie from Crieff and she was ever so posh and bright and i was well pleased with the hire. FF 3 weeks later to the Christmas party when she got hammered and called the MD of Capital radio a c unt very loudly and aggressively, I could even see Tony Blackburn wince.

I also recall a girl in my team (diff company) wanking off the Commercial Director at a Christmas party and he was married with kids and she was going out with a pal of mine.

All part of the magic of Christmas

is that the TL

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Merry Molliemas

is that the TL

No she would have hit him as well and then wanked off Tony Blackburn in the loos

[Nicky91]

Originally Posted by Isaiah 7:14

No she would have hit him as well and then wanked off Tony Blackburn in the loos

what, is your TL a WWE fighting girl

[Smithy]

Originally Posted by Isaiah 7:14

you seem to have a good working knowledge so I will bow to your expertise of this type of man..

What can I say, there’s a lot of them on this site so I guess I’m just used to it by now

[LukeB]

even though i wouldn't want the family to split up because of the kid i will still have to tell her because it would be bugging me a lot. it seems unfair on the woman not knowing the truth and she deserves better (same goes to if the woman was cheating on the man). If that woman ever found out and knew you knew for ages then she will be pissed with you so it will be awkward and tense every work shift you have with them.

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Dancing in Blizzards

What can I say, there’s a lot of them on this site so I guess I’m just used to it by now

harsh on marsh