[the truth]

Originally Posted by Toy Soldier

So... you just by complete coincidence, happened to meet and get involved with a woman who matches 100% of the bizarre and unrealistic preconceptions you have about women in general? There are only two realistic explanations here. Either you specifically sought out a woman like this in an extraordinary act of confirmation bias / self harm... OR you have invented a caricature of a woman based on your skewed perception of females.

I strongly suspect it's the latter. If it's the former, my advice is... stop allowing yourself to be abused and find a partner who loves you and who you love.

Ive no idea what youre on about, this is whats happenning and this is the situation, if you choose to believe its all make believe good for you

as for everyone else, thanks for your constructive replies, tricky situation not sure what to do next tbh...blinking gorgous girl with some redeeming qualities despite the obvious drawbacks